My MIL talks about how evil abortions are, etc. too. Yet right before she got pregnant with DH, she had a miscarriage. She said that at the time she was actually grateful for the miscarriage because she couldn't handle a baby right then. Ok, so it's okay if the baby dies when it's an inconvenience, but if you get raped or make a stupid decision and can't handle a baby, it's somehow not okay to terminate it when its only 5 weeks along instead of the 3 months along my MIL was when she had her miscarriage. It makes no sense.