I am not nor have I ever been pregnant. I am saying I WOULD have an abortion, not adopt, if I were to be though. I am the one who said my family would not want me to abort. I was saying that because people were saying you should not abort, but adopt - but, I was saying that is why I would NOT choose to adopt. I would because my family would take the baby and adopt it and do all that stuff - shove it in my face, etc. I think you totally missed the point. Plus it was a what if - again, I have NEVER had a pregnancy.