Cotnd- Ok it didn't post for me to make a comment, but besides the people who used it for a form of reality porn, what about the the people that upwards of 9 years ago did do something, then confessed it to their husband or wife, they've moved on and become better, now friends, community,coworkers, all deserve to know? And don't say that if the other knows it won't matter, that is still terrible and has damages. Annnnd what about the people that went through a tough time, signed up, walked the edge and then....CHOSE WHAT WAS RIGHT! This situation has removed all those that slipped and maybe faced temptation but did the right thing. Now assumed a cheater! But we love it when a someone rides the cheating edge in a Romantic Comedy, or maybe even in your own life, but in the end makes the right choice. Yes there are definitely people who cheated or wanted to, but there are far too many that wouldn't for this to be out there.