First of all, let's take a deep breath. My understanding is that people in the racial justice movement are not asking white women to stop talking, but to be conscious of how much space we are taking up. So I try to check myself on that, especially when it comes to talking about my emotional response to new information and ideas. I can use my privilege to support this movement, but I have to remember that they don't need my "help." They know what they are doing. What I can do is make space for their work. So I'm sorry if someone made you feel bad, or like you were told to STFU. Sharing power takes some getting used to. Try not to take it personally. If you really care about social justice, and I believe that you do, take a deep breath and just remember that this is a journey. It brings up a lot of emotions, but POC are not responsible for helping us work through those emotions. Keep listening, keep reflecting, keep seeking information, and don't give up.