My confession is that even though it really pisses me off when I hear racist remarks, I don't always say anything. I fucking hate it, but when I say something, "Stop being racist!" or something to that effect... I get looked at like I'm some sort of hyper-sensitive crybaby. "Jesus, I was just kidding, get a fucking sense of humor!" Well guess what I don't think it's funny. Not even a little. Just because we live in the Great White North where virtually everyone is white- that doesn't make it okay to use the N word. What really pissed me off is when my own DH made fun of a little boy's afro (not to the boy, but just to me- like I would think it was funny). A child. What. The Fuck. Yeah, I got pretty pissed off and ripped him a new one. But random racist jokes, I've stopped trying. And I'm not proud.