I have similar stories. How sad is it that I'm supposed to feel blessed for not being raped? There was a really good thread on Twitter recently, where people, both men and women, shared stories like this. No one was asking for congratulations, or hollering about not all men. It was just a bunch of nice stories to remind people that the world isn't totally shit and that there are still guys who respect and love women. It honestly gave me hope for humanity, after hearing nothing but traumatic stories for so long. It was also a big wake up call for the few guys who DID expect a medal for being decent human beings, and were promptly put in their place by other men.