And I'm not the op you're responding to, but come the fuck on. Who're you trying to fool? Your mention and downplay of white privilege speaks volumes. Once I read that, I immediately understood why you're defensive about someone talking about a racist from the south. A little too close to home, huh? Also, sidenote, my mom's side is from Alabama, and you can bet your ass I've got people just like the awful mil in my family.