Jesus H. I wouldn't wish my XMIL on my worst enemy, and here I've cursed my children to have her for a grandmother. She called DS22 in a big emergency to bring DGD1 over to visit her. Over an hour away, at a moment's notice. He said no, he had to work. So he made a plan to head over that way and visit relatives that live over there on the weekend. He gets there, and she's got her crack-head (literally, the man does crack and just got paroled from prison) XBF back living with her. He's told her a hundred times he doesn't want DGD1 around the guy, and she supposedly had broken up with him anyway. So he drove his family all the way over there and visited everyone BUT her. The one having the fit that she needed to see the baby. Also- DS tried to get her to come to dinner at her sister's house without the BF and she refused. She's a nightmare.