What do you do when your 11yo kid does not care at ALL about doing the right thing? The lying, manipulating, gluttony, blatant disrespect and lack of morals is just completely shocking to me. I have been a very hands on parent, always involved in every aspect. But I've always tried to give him respect and space to work things out on his own as much as I can. I've done the best I can, and I have no idea if this type of behavior is normal? I get life is different right now, but when you have everything and then some... the only really different thing is not going places.