I get it. DH spent most of his kids' childhoods in the military and being deployed, so in a way, he sees DS as the "son he never had." For years he made constant comments about wishing DS was in football or baseball so he could take him/go to games and coach him. I mean, all the time. DS had played soccer for a few years when he was younger and wasn't that into it, and wasn't interested in the other sports. He's not built for them anyway, as he's tall and lanky. He's into things like surfing, skateboarding and parkour, and other than that, is more academic. He's out of high school now, but sometimes DH will still say, "I wish he had..." Dude, STOP.