Go ahead and flame me, but I'd choose man B. My ex husband loved me more than life itself. He tried to make me happy, as best as he knew how, but our relationship, while hot, was unsustainable. Unfortunately, he was raised in a fucked up household and didn't understand how to make a marriage work, even with counseling. Love, even the glorious, undying kind, isn't always enough. I'll always love that man, but that relationship was just too tumultuous. So, at this point in my life, I'd choose a mediocre, secure marriage, where money is stable and things are kind of boring, over burning, passionate, die-for-you love.