I was at the grocery store yesterday and there was a woman and her about 2 year old daughter, maybe 3, sitting in the art. The little girl was obese. Not a little chubby like a lot of toddlers, but very overweight. The mom was picking out several donuts while talking to her daughter. She was asking, "Which one do you wan first?" implying that she was going to have more than one. She gave the girl one of them while she was there. Sorry, but I think this is actually abusive. And I am someone who has had weight issues for my entire life. Ironically, mom was quite slim, very well-dressed, made-up, etc. She obviously placed importance on her appearance.