Did we have the same mom?!?! Mine did this too!!! She also did it with guys I dated. I was supposed to go out on a date one night and ran to the drugstore in the afternoon. Apparently the guy called for directions while I was out, and she told him that if he came on our property, she'd have him arrested. Also, I wasn't allowed to give our number out to just anyone - they had to be "worth it," whatever that means. But SHE would put personals ads in the paper, pretending to be me, and include our phone number. Then the guy would call and she'd first interrogate him on where he met "me," berate him, tell him that she was (my name) and he was lying. Even when I got my own apt, she'd let herself in when I was at work, listen to my messages and call the guy, or answer the phone, and tell them that I was out with my "boyfriend," or I was living with another guy, or I was engaged.