My husband is like you. Loves cats. He loves them so much, we now have five. He jokes about getting another. If he does, I'm leaving. I'm not joking. I love animals, but I don't enjoy cleaning litter boxes, picking up vomit, hearing them fight, hearing them barf, stepping in vomit, spending a stupid amount of money on vet bills and flea medicine. I hate living in a house with this many animals. If you know you're going to upset your husband by getting another cat... why do it? Why not respect him by not forcing him to live with an animal he doesn't really want? I want to save them all, too. Logically, though? It's impossible. I realize I'm projecting, but I just want to understand... isn't your husband more important?