I never said she was. Their business isn't making enough to pay bills, let alone for new pets. He has other income. If she adopts a new pet, my ex has to pay for it because she doesn't have the money for it. That means my child isn't getting her CS because he has to cover for his wifes impulse purchases. I don't care what they use their money on as long as his CS is paid. His wife doesn't want kids, she had him choose between her or our daughter. She broke up with him over it. So he dumped our child 4yrs ago to make her happy. For years she's been complaining about him having to pay CS. She's evil and he's a whipped coward. He doesn't want to look like he can't finance her, he's afraid she'll leave him, so CS is the first thing he skips. Their money is separate, that's the only way he can hide his debt and impulses. He has his mail and collections sent to my house to hide it from her. I called companies and USPS to stop it, all say he has to be the one to change it.