I can't stand my 29/dd. It's been rough for me to find a job, etc. I found one a few weeks after she gave birth in August. I didn't have a job or any money for 4 months. If it hadn't been for my mom and sis, I'd probably be dead because of lack of food. I still live with dh, but we've been separated for over 2 years. He wouldn't give me any money and I didn't expect it. I survived. My dd gets pissed when I'm not at her beck and call to watch baby. I have a life and I'm trying to make moves to get outta here, get my own place ect. Dd is in recovery but sure doesn't treat people with kindness and understanding. She asked 1 of my best friends to babysit baby yesterday. I'm ok with it. I told dd I can't stand to be around her mean, judgmental, criticizing self. If she can't be nice to me, then she needs to stay away. I've dealt with all that crap from her alcoholic dad for years.