Posted by: anonymous
2014-05-20 23:25:55
ID: 4095
I don't thin people with bipolar, schizophrenia or other severe mental illness should have kids.
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Posted by: anonymous
2014-05-20 22:26:42
ID: 4091
I posted a while ago about my SIL being pregnant and not wanting to tell me because she thought I would be upset about it. Turns out, my MIL (who doesn't "believe" in being CF) told SIL that I would probably be upset because DH and I haven't been able to conceive--we're on BC and have been for years, btw. Why can't my MIL just plain butt out? Ugh.
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Posted by: anonymous
2014-05-20 20:48:56
ID: 4081
My ex used to rant about how American culture has become too coarse. All accompanied by his nonstop potty mouth. I would have laughed about it because he is a major contrubutor to the decline of culture, but it was too disgusting for even a laugh.
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Posted by: anonymous
2014-05-20 16:12:01
ID: 4063
I think if more people focused on raising and guiding their children to be mature and respectful hard working young adults then American wouldn't be in the crap hole it is in today. With each generation it gets worse and worse. People step on others to get ahead no matter what the cost. They focus on the glory of fame and fortune rather than being a good person. No one takes responsibility for their actions anymore. If someone robs a store or gets in a fight or cheats there is always an excuse to blame it on some other factor and it is never their fault. People are lazy. They want to make big bucks but do very little or even no work at all. Everyone is too worried about having the latest phone or $500 purse or shoes instead of taking the times to sit down and enjoy what they have and teach their children to be gracious for the small things in life. Living modestly isn't bad like some make it out to be. Raising a child with manners and the ability to work hard and think for themselves says more about you than what you own.
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Posted by: anonymous
2014-05-20 00:31:08
ID: 4036
The reason you'd want someone around if they don't want to be with you is that you want or need sex a housekeeper a cook a child care worker their income, etc. etc. etc. Happens all the time.
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Posted by: anonymous
2014-05-19 21:56:04
ID: 4032
If you and your parents can get along, go ahead and live with them IF they agree to it--don't just announce to them that you'll need them to let you move in and be a nuisance. Also: You couldn't pay me enough money to live with my parents ever again. I couldn't wait to leave.
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Posted by: anonymous
2014-05-19 21:52:32
ID: 4031
Women who think they are going to get alimony and child support to live on and all will be peachy, think again. Many judges expect able bodied women to get back on their feet over time and support themselves. So even if you DO get alimony..and you might's usually limited to a few years. Child support is the man's share of the expenses it takes to raise the child as determined by the court. It's not for your manicures, clothes or trips. So your lifestyle will change and most likely be downgraded. I can't stress this enough..have some job skills.
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Posted by: anonymous
2014-05-19 17:05:48
ID: 4017
If your marriage is over and you're miserable, you don't want to have to stay in that relationship because your spouse will not accept it and let it happen because of financial reasons. Some women will not let their spouse's leave a relationship because of financial worries. They will stay and be miserable and everyone will be miserable.
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Posted by: anonymous
2014-05-19 13:58:01
ID: 4007
I think it's weird to reconsider having your wife work because keeping her dependent makes it harder for her to leave you? Why would you want someone around if they hate being with you? SMH
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Posted by: anonymous
2014-05-18 21:44:23
ID: 3994
I ate a whole boxed cake today. A WHOLE cake. Who does that?
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