I'm shocked at how many people I know who don't seem to understand words these days. I have at least 6 friends who are single, and after every boyfriend breaks up with them says "I'm so done with guys! I'm going to focus on me for a while. No dating until I'm happy being single..." Or something along those lines. And days later they're on dates or madly in love with some guy they just met. One girl even got engaged to a guy just weeks after they started dating. He left her cuz she wasn't losing weightand when I said to her, in a private conversation, good riddance to anyone who doesn't love you the way you are she tells me "I'm just so sick of being lonely" and then when we meet up with people she's right back to "take some me time, no dating for a while..." When I said, at 15, I wasn't going to date anyone until I was happy being single I meant it. I didn't date again for 3 years. And when I found someone worth giving up the single life for he turned out to be my husband. I really wish they would just stop lying to everyone, including themselves,by either not saying it or by actually following through.