And on another note about the ex, I only get $77 per month of child support for my 2 children (and only because he receives disability). That's for TWO kids. When I took our DD10 to see him yesterday, he was bragging and showing off his new 50" LED Smart Samsung TV, his new Samsung cell phone (that's almost the size of a tablet), was bragging about he was going to purchase a new Blu-Ray player, and "accidentally" showing me the rings that his new girlfriend wants for him to buy her for their wedding that's coming up in the next few months (he accidentally showed me when he was trying to show me pictures of one of his other kids, but slowly scrolled through the ring pics). I couldn't care less about what he's doing, I just want for him to pay more $$ for the kids that he created with me. DH & I make more than enough to support them, but that doesn't dismiss the fact that he too is obligated in supporting them. How the F*^& can he afford to buy all this other crap?? I want to take him to civil court for the back child support since the Child Support office tells me that they can't do anything to help me, but I don't even know if they even take cases like this.