My brother calls me up to once again demand (not ask) that I host him in Europe when my husband and I move there this year. He goes on about how I owe him even after I paid for him and my mom to come to Hawaii as well as staying at our house for free while we were here, he goes on about how selfish I am. Well you know what? The reason why he isn't coming is because living in another country has always been my dream and I am not going to let some entitled brat demand to come uninvited especially when we have no idea when our furniture is arriving or even our car and even after I said "no" he still bugs and tries to get mom on his side. It has barely been five months since he visited us here and now he is demanding that I have him stay over there? No. I am not Richie Mc.TravelPlans for this guy and I don't care if he is paying for his ticket. He showed me great disrespect for hounding me after I said no, for telling mom to tell me to "suck his left nut" when I told her that there was no way he was coming and I have not made plans for anyone to visit this year. I don't care if he was joking, after someone gives you an all-expense trip,you don't throw a tantrum and demand another one or make bad jokes when they say no. He always invites himself over to whatever someone else is doing and expects him to pay. I cannot wait to move far away from this inconsiderate jerk. If he wants to go to Europe so badly he could pay for his ticket, go to a nice youth hostel and I will take him to dinner. I won't host his rudeness and the fact that he has never been nice to me, always demanding and saying I "owe" him for the fact that my dad (not his biological dad) got custody of me when we were kids and I was primarily taking care of him.