So basically my youngest brother has been talking behind my back and calling me disgusting names. He also calls his exes "whores" and my stepmom is a b***h. I got sick of it and told him that with a mouth like that no wonder no woman respects him and that he is nothing but a little boy and a mooch. Mom defended him and I said "Congrats, you raised a man who would grow up to be just like his father." (His dad was abusive to my mom) Sorry, I don't respect men who talk about woman so disgustingly and mothers who take that crap. Also, if it was anyone saying that about her daughter my mom would be on them but because it is the son she always backs up, it is completely ok. Now the end result is I have cut out my brother from my life and my mom has lost my total respect.