I'm talking about older people too, not just my age. I really don't think the vast majority of 50 year old men are looking any better than 50 year old women, and plenty of them get a gut going on too, exercise or not, unless they were always super lean. What I see is men looking not so great way sooner and then women just slowly catching up like decades later. I still think it's a sexist myth. There just happen to be some exceptionally attractive people of each gender who buck the trend and age really beautifully, or can afford to spend a shit ton on looking really great and have plenty of time to take care of themselves. I have to say, as a bi person, I know 50 year old ladies I would totally fuck on a totally shallow appearance base. Don't think I've ever met a 50 year old dude I would fuck based off of the way he looked. Although I concur with whoever said Mark Ruffalo lol.