So I have a friend who is really into the whole HAES/weight doesn't matter lifestyle. She is in total denial about the health problems she has--she has high blood pressure, is prediabetic, and has horrible problems with PCOS. She's only 25 and instead of losing weight to help her PCOS, she wants to find a doctor who will give her a pill to help. I have PCOS too and the only thing that helped was to follow a diet low in processed carbs, lose the extra weight, and get the right birth control pill prescribed. She has a history of an eating disorder and I know weight loss is touchy for her, but she doesn't think her weight is causing any issues when it actually probably is.