I was in a narrow aisle at the supermarket, trying to choose wrapping paper, when a guy tried to squeeze by me an said, "excuse me sweetie." I said, "Sorry" and after he passed, under my breath, "maybe don't call me sweetie..." Not a moment later another guy came by and said, "Excuse me, ma'am," and I said cheerfully, "Thank you for not calling me sweetie!" He proceeded to lecture me on and on about how the other guy was "just trying to be nice." After a while I smiled and said, "Thank you for mansplaining all of that to me!" Seriously, why do men have to tell you how to feel about this kind of thing? Why?!?