It turns out we have similarities. He’s also a middle child, from similar cultural backgrounds, has worked with adults with disabilities, a little older than me (3 years), and area where he lives now has the same street name of where I grew up, one of my favorite African proverbs he has a poster of it on his wall, and a few times he’s said something along the lines of what I was thinking. One major difference is he was born/lives in Canada and I was born/live in the States. I’ve “met” him about 2.5weeks ago and been messaging for a week, but it feels like I’ve know him longer. Has this ever happened to you?