So.. several years ago a friend of mine lost her 19yo son in a car accident. We live in MI, he was in MT when it happened. I remember they had a really difficult time getting him back here for burial. It was, in short, a nightmare. Since then she's moved out of state, we're basically out of touch. And now, my daughter is 19. And she's going this summer to MT to work as a river guide. I haven't mentioned my friend's son to anyone. Not a soul. Most of the people I know now, don't know her. But it makes me uncomfortable. It just makes me uneasy. I can't help but think that's normal.