I have a friend who literally hates having sex with her new DH. They've not even been married a year. He apparently has trouble keeping it up and often doesn't finish and definitely won't give her an O. Meanwhile, she thinks I have sex too much because I often agree to have sex with DH even if I'm not "totally" in the mood because of this: If he's horny and I'm not terribly in the mood, he is very, very willing to make me O and I never end up, like, regretting it. I wish I knew how to help her more, but I think her DH is being incredibly selfish because he refuses to learn why he's got so many problems.