After not having a job since, 3-28-17, withdrawing my retirement, cheating, and starting Al-anon, I got offered a job today! It's only 15 dollars an hour, but it offers paid vacation, benefits, 401k, profit sharing, and room to move up. I will finally be able to file for divorce soon! I'm 47 and finally feel like I'm starting my life. A life away from him and his alcoholism. I will be free. 27 years married.