In the beginning of my relationship with boyfriend, I told him I wouldn't be easy to love because of the hurt, lies and cheating dh and another man did to me. He has loved me a lot, but when I ask for proof once in awhile about somewhere he says he's going, he gets upset. I've already caught him in 1 lie. I told him that he needs to be trustworthy if he wants me to trust him. He apologized and said he understands, but I'm not sure he does. It makes me sad because I love him. I won't put up with crap anymore either though.