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Posted by: anonymous
2019-04-21 23:00:22
ID: 59931
In response to a confession. It doesn't. INFJs are highly intuitive and it's annoying when people say we're psychic. We're just more tuned in to the world around us, much more than any other personality type. There's nothing mystical about it. Quit moving posts, ffs. It's okay if people respond to stuff that *gasp* might also apply to another channel.
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Posted by: Admin
2019-04-21 07:38:39
ID: 59930
In response to a confession. Tell me this doesn't belong in the Psychic channel?
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Posted by: anonymous
2019-04-21 04:20:55
ID: 59929
In response to a confession. 100% INFJ. Not even borderline any other type on all 4 categories. Had a long dream, complete with dialog and clear color movie action, about my ex from 20 years ago. Real time, evolved feelings about someone I haven’t seen in over 15 years. Then woke up and read this confession.
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Posted by: anonymous
2019-04-21 03:25:51
ID: 59928
It's normal to grieve at the end of a relationship. I'm not saying it's abnormal not to grieve, just that if a person takes longer to process things, there's nothing wrong with that. Every time I had a breakup I was a mess for the first month and it took me about a year to be completely over it. I can look back now and wish each of my exes well, but it took a while. We're all different.
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Posted by: anonymous
2019-04-21 00:23:14
ID: 59923
In response to a confession. I'm the same way. When I have ended relationships, I've ended them. I may have had fond memories but I don't think it's healthy to hang onto something that just isn't going to happen. It's not a personal issue with you; it's that you weren't compatible with the other person for whatever reason. You aren't going to be compatible with everyone. I had to kiss a few toads and got dumped by guys I thought were okay but who clearly had issues with me for various reasons. You don't want to spend the rest of your life with someone who doesn't want to be with you.
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Posted by: anonymous
2019-04-20 21:02:38
ID: 59917
In response to a confession. i don't know what my personality type is but i'm the same way. when a relationship is over, it's over. the person rarely crosses my mind again and i move on. this goes for friends as well as boyfriends.
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Posted by: anonymous
2019-04-20 17:34:33
ID: 59915
I'm always sympathetic to people going through a break-up, but I can't even remotely relate to the feeling of pining for a lost love. I think it has to do with my personality type (INFJ). When I break-up with someone, or they break-up with me, I accept it. It's over. I move on. I might look back on fond memories, but I can't relate at all to the impulse of torturing myself with "what might have been." INFJs are known for being weird when it comes to how we process our emotions, and I'm never a dick to someone who is hurting; I just struggle with truly empathizing with someone who can't/won't get on with their life and accept that they're relationship has ended.
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Posted by: anonymous
2019-04-15 13:01:17
ID: 59866
DH is sitting here drunk babbling about how I f'ed him over because I ruined our credit, I had an affair, (we were separated), how our ds/18 wants to beat him up, and how our 28/dd is pregnant. He doesn't see that the common thread is HIM and him being an alcoholic. Mean, abusive/verbally for years, not here for any of us because he worked, came home, and would sit in his shed until bed time. I have worked my whole adult life and then some. I took care of the kids and all their needs. He appreciates nothing. Our ds is lost right now but I have hope, and our dd and her boyfriend have their lives together. Not perfect but they're trying. He doesn't find happiness in anything.
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Posted by: anonymous
2019-04-15 06:36:06
ID: 59871
I miss you J. I miss you terribly and i need u right now so bad. Please come back to me.
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Posted by: anonymous
2019-04-15 03:42:11
ID: 59865
I hate your useless dh. There, I said it. Your family hates him too.
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