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Posted by: anonymous
2024-02-27 14:23:07
ID: 68756
Operation Divorce has started. I just created a new (secret) email account via a free encrypted email service and opened a separate bank account (also secret). I set it up to have $150 from each paycheck direct deposited into that account. I just started a new job making a shit ton more money and haven't gotten my first full paycheck yet, with 401K deductions, etc. So husband will have no idea that the checks are $150 less than they should be, because we don't really know what the exact amount should be yet. I will also funnel some cash deposits to it here and there. I should have enough saved in the account in a year to retain a divorce lawyer. Right on schedule.
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Posted by: anonymous
2023-11-12 19:33:43
ID: 68736
Everything is finally coming together. Looks like my husband will be getting served with divorce papers next year for Christmas. I have wanted this forever and planning it for years. I have busted my ass to get to a place financially where I can do this. I honed my skills, got a certification and am now finally making enough money to support myself and stay in this house. He's going to claim to be completely blindsided even though I've expressed my unhappiness hundreds of times over the years. We've even seen a counsellor. He'll say the right things to them, so it looks like he's making an effort. Things will get slightly better for a couple weeks. Then he's right back to being useless. He contributes absolutely nothing to this family other than a paycheck and I don't need that anymore. If there's a way to do less than the bare minimum, he'll find it every time. Can't wait.
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Posted by: anonymous
2023-08-30 16:16:11
ID: 68706
My dear hiking friend starting hiking together a few years ago. This year, our goal is to visit all the National Parks in our state and we've done over half just this summer alone. Recently had third trip together with overnight stays since we both live in diff. states now. She doesn't mind driving through hilly forests which is a huge plus. My only pet peeve with her is that she's very addicted to her phone and social media often stopping every moment to take pics (as gorgeous as they are). When we get back to the place we're staying at, she's immediately back on her phone sending pics, talking with family, or watching videos on social media. I not going to sit there while on her phone so then we're both on our phones after amazing days at the parks. Would love to just have an hour of two of convo without any distractions. I suppose social media is her way to unwind after long driving days, but it bums me out since we both rarely see each other.
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Posted by: anonymous
2023-08-30 01:24:54
ID: 68705
In response to a confession. Nope. Hysterectomy in ‘94. I just snapped at him yesterday for crumpling up an empty water bottle. I’ve been dealing with a lot with elderly family members lately and I think he’s just been an easy target. I have started apologizing after my meltdowns and he says he understands.
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Posted by: anonymous
2023-08-27 17:24:03
ID: 68704
In response to a confession. Menopause?
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Posted by: anonymous
2023-07-17 23:53:11
ID: 68691
I've been snapping a DH a lot lately. He forgot to take his phone for the millionth time, he didn't pick up after himself, he left the bathroom a mess.......all things he's done continuously in our 35+ years together. So why is it all SO fucking annoying now? I'm checking out three-day solo getaways right now. Is there something in the air or is it just me?
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Posted by: anonymous
2023-06-29 16:46:21
ID: 68685
Friend got divorced recently after 20 years of marriage. We were at an event and a male acquaintance, who is better friends with her ex husband, said to her that it must be hard for her to have to do everything now (they have 3 kids) and asked how she's managing all that extra work. She replied that taking the trash can to the street once a week isn't that challenging. I laughed out loud. They really do think they contribute so much more than they do.
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Posted by: anonymous
2023-05-13 17:12:00
ID: 68662
I've posted before that my husband is a fucking idiot. That's not totally true. He's actually a fucking lazy idiot. Two more years, then I'm out.
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Posted by: anonymous
2023-04-15 15:22:02
ID: 68650
People make fun of me when I buy a lottery ticket and get disappointed when I lose. But it's the only way I could leave him and not completely ruin my kids' lives. Every time I lose, I lose more hope.
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Posted by: anonymous
2023-02-01 18:22:01
ID: 68626
I feel like I post this all the time, but my husband's a fucking idiot. Two more years, then I can leave.
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