Ah, you didn't realize that was all the same person? Yes, multiple people have problem marriages on here, and even more than one has a husband with that same mental issue. But this OP has a certain voice/style that is specific to her. And while there may only be one person here who is 'talking shit' to an abused woman, there is more than one of us that want to support this OP in getting out of a bad situation before it becomes deadly. And some of us believe that we aren't doing her any favors by suggesting she stay in a situation that is getting progressively worse. Her DH is off his meds again, and is starting to have cycles of rage. In this case, the faster she gets out of there, the more likely she is to not end up in a hospital, or worse.