Posted by: anonymous
2017-06-09 20:37:11
ID: 48463
In response to a confession. Why would you set yourself up for this?
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-06-09 16:14:27
ID: 48450
It's an affair. He doesn't want to raise my hopes so doesn't tell me early, when he might see me. But never knowing, and learning last minute makes me crazy. But he's also not wrong. When he's suggested a possible time, and it falls through, I'm very very hurt.
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-06-09 09:20:29
ID: 48454
I love DH with all my heart. But for the love of all that's holy, WHY does he throw up in the sink??? In the last ten years he's been sick a few times and EVERY.SINGLE.TIME he'll run by the toilet to puke in the sink. At least I'm not cleaning it up, but DAYUMMM!!!
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-06-07 18:19:49
ID: 48437
I think marriage sucks. There, I said it. I'm married to a good second good guy by the way....and I just think I hate being married. I wish I didn't have to waste so many years and two people's hearts discovering this.
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Posted by: hanginin
2017-06-07 13:34:36
ID: 48407
In response to a confession. I really liked the convenience of the audio book. I listened while I was driving, a time when I would normally have lit up. My favorite parts of not smoking: having extra money and not stinking like an ash tray. My car actually smells GOOD now. Also my skin looks better. Bonus! :D Good luck to you! You can do it!
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-06-07 12:53:03
ID: 48405
My BFF and I have agreed if both of our marriages end, we would marry each other. Not for sex. {We'd both find a FWB} Because we know what the other wants/expects in life, agree about raising our kids, like our houses the same kind of clean. She has great insurance benefits and we love hanging out. I imagine if our DH's die before us, we will literally live together when we retire. Like the Golden Girls.
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-06-07 01:01:37
ID: 48387
In response to a confession. Going to Amazon to find Allen Carr's book. I hope there's something in it about mood swings....with the mood DH is in today, I'm about to swing something (heavy) at him!
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Posted by: hanginin
2017-06-06 19:53:18
ID: 48385
The Allen Carr book on quitting smoking really helped me a lot. I listened to the audio version. It surprised me that it was as helpful as it was. I gave copies of it on thumb drives to friends and family that wanted to know how I did it. You think any of them gave it a try? Nope. Oh well.
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-06-05 23:53:01
ID: 48358
In response to a confession. Big hugs to you and good job on not smoking! My dh and I quit a few years ago. Vaping REALLY helped my dh taper off the nicotine. I still have a cigarette maybe once a month, but my dh asked me not to tell him if I do, or where I keep my pack. I can smoke one and then not have one for weeks, but my dh can't control himself. If they're in the house, he'll smoke them all in one day. I once bought a pack of clove cigarettes and he sucked down the whole pack in an afternoon (barf). I think vaping also helped him because it's something he can fidget with, you know? Our quitting styles were just very different. You two will figure out what works for you. Good luck to you both!
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-06-05 18:28:29
ID: 48355
DH and I quit smoking on May 31st. I've had a couple rough days, yesterday being the worst. My method of quitting is to have one unopened pack of cigs in the drawer. That way I CHOOSE not to smoke. I walked out on the deck yesterday afternoon and there he was....smoking one of my cigs! I tied into him, even calling him weak. I was so upset that I went for a drive (small Butterfinger Blizzard instead of a pack of cigs). I realized I was most angry that he was smoking and I wasn't. This afternoon two more cigs were missing...but I'm still choosing NOT to smoke.
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