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Posted by: anonymous
2017-10-05 20:00:21
ID: 51007
In December DH bought window vents for his truck. They've been sitting in the garage (unopened) ever since. Well, we quit smoking (and those things are called 'smokers' vents'), bought a new car that we're driving to our winter home, and leave the day after tomorrow. The truck will spend the next four months in the garage. Guess what he is spending the WHOLE FREAKIN' DAY doing???
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-10-04 23:43:42
ID: 50990
I miss you, TS.
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-10-04 05:58:27
ID: 50968
I’ve decided to break up with my boyfriend. The one who “forgot” I have a life separate from him. I’ve realized I brush so many things under the rug with him... he is constantly trying to “trick” me into eating spicy things knowing I shouldn’t be for health reasons and just don’t like to. He purposely kissed me after drowning his food in hotsauce and licking his lips so his spicy spit was all over them first. And then was sad when I didn’t react. He heard me sing once a few months ago and asked my son “doesn’t mommy sound funny when she sings?” And has made other jokes at the expense of my self esteem and so much more. But i’m bad at breakups... i made this decision weeks ago and still don’t have the guts to say anything. We don’t talk on the phone, we text. And I don’t want to do it face to face... seems rude to ask him to drive to me just to dump him. Would it make me a horrible person to break up with him via text?
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Posted by: Stormyweather
2017-10-04 02:11:13
ID: 50963
In response to a confession. I hope you can get to where you want to be, with all the other factors. Your needs and wants matter too. :-)
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-10-03 23:44:09
ID: 50961
Thanks for the support (I'm the "I'd love to be single" person) but honestly, now just isn't the time to make it happen. My kids' security far outweighs what I want right now.
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-10-03 22:21:11
ID: 50959
In response to a confession. i hear you OP. i feel the same way and i have what's considered to be a "good marriage".
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-10-03 19:11:12
ID: 50952
In response to a confession. I'm not minimizing your struggle, but if you want to be single, make it happen. Life is too short to not live the life you want. Money, kids, whatever, it will work out if you make it work out.
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-10-03 19:08:14
ID: 50951
I so wish I could be single again, live alone, just date who I felt like dating, when and where I felt like it, not feeling pressured to have sex ever again, not being bugged about my weight or finding a better job, not having to deal with DH's moods and messy habits. I would just love to be single.
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-10-03 14:35:20
ID: 50940
I feel the sadness creeping back in. Sad at the state of my marriage. Sad my fwb can't be mine forever. Sad at who I've become. Sad at the chaos in the world. I have antidepressants, but I won't take them because I have no health insurance for refills. I'm trying to deal with my depression in healthy ways like exercising and eating better. I can't believe God would still love someone like me.
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-10-03 13:17:23
ID: 50937
My DH regularly stays up until 2 or 3 in the morning and is up by 9 on days off. No wonder he's a grumpy shit all the time. I did that twice this weekend because I was out with friends, then Sunday just didn't sleep well. If anyone even talked to me I felt like yelling at them. I'm seriously going to start bugging him to come to bed earlier.
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