Boyfriend and I live one hour drive apart and usually only see each other on weekends. We take turns deciding what to do every other weekend. His friends always show up at his apartment without calling first and speaking with one of us to make sure its ok to stop by.. He asked them not to do this this weekend because it was my weekend. They called and when he didint answer the phone, 10 minutes later they were banging on his door. We were in BED..:) Anyway, I asked him to ask them to leave because it was my weekend, and I wanted some time alone after driving one hour each way to see him. He said ok, he understood, he would tell them its not a good time and come right back. Instead, as usual, he let them in. I asked to speak with him privately in the bedroom, and asked him when he was going to ask them to leave. He said "I can't they are my friends" So I grabbed my stuff and stormed out. This is not the first time this has happened, but it the first time left I because of it .