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Posted by: anonymous
2017-07-05 22:34:50
ID: 48900
I am divorced and just started dating again. I am sure some "rules" and customs have changed. After sex do women normally wait for the man to call/text? It is customary/acceptable for the woman to call text first? How long before a call/text? I got married young and hadnt dated much. LOL help!! I do not want to seem super old fashioned...or disinterested, or desperate.
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-07-05 22:19:20
ID: 48889
In response to a confession. Ooh, I would be real pissed about that. Can you just hold off on the kitchen until you're there? We redid our kitchen a few years ago and I was ultra controlling, lol. But you know what? I'm the main cook in our house and I wanted everything to be the way I wanted. My husband, bless his little pea pickin' heart, just didn't know squat about the kitchen of my dreams, and let me take over the remodel. Don't give in, op! Get what you want!
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-07-05 19:21:58
ID: 48887
Well my BF never text or called me all day. He came home ate and didn't ask me about my day. So after a hour I said you don't know what day it is? He looked at me and said the 4th of july. I said thank you for telling me Happy birthday! He said he has time to get me a gift at 6:30pm. I told him to save his money! He had 4 days off! He ran to dollar general store and bought a gift bag and 2 shirts. He only bought these things because I was mad! He didn't forget he just made sure I know I don't matter! He had his cookie cake, balloons, a card, and a new phone for his birthday! All I wanted was a call, text or words from him saying Happy Birthday! Since I obviously wasn't worth it, I'm moving out! I told him it's time to move on.
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-07-05 04:05:47
ID: 48882
I am SO pissed. We are designing a kitchen (DH and I), long distance. He just sent me the layout the useless IKEA guy proposed and I HATE it - you can't even imagine. SO pissed. And the "help" from this guy was useless WTF. hate hate hate our future fucking kitchen. Just like the bathroom was remodeled in a horrible way. Hate it all so pissed. He is insisting that we need the ikea dishwasher that will be "hidden" as a cabinet. (Dh is saying the IKEA guy is saying we MUST get their dishwasher) I don't want it hidden as a cabinet - I don't care if it shows. I don't want an Ikea dishwasher either. hate this.
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-07-04 00:03:05
ID: 48866
DH has had Saturday, Sunday, today, and tomorrow off. He has slept til 4pm every day so far. So on Wednesday, I know he's going to be crabby about how he wasted his whole vacation. I'm not going to be sympathetic, since I did NOT have all four days off and I had to clean, cook, and get stuff done so I can go back to work Wednesday too.
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-07-03 23:40:10
ID: 48863
Today is my birthday. Has my BF said happy birthday? No and he won't because the 4th is more important! I don't care about gifts. But say it or text it!(A card is asking way to much) We will argur tomorrow because I have to work on the 4th and shouldn't be tired. So if I don't want to be up until midnight when I have to work in the morning I'm a party pooper! Time to figure out how I can afford to leave, save money. This area is expensive so it sucks but needs to happen.
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-07-03 19:52:16
ID: 48859
Dh doesn't learn. We've discussed not telling his kids about plans ahead of time. We're going camping for a week tomorrow and he was suppose to have the kids yesterday the 1st for visitation til end of month. Dh told his kids about the trip last week, his exW didn't show up to the exchange and is texting she knows about his fake family vacation and he won't be getting them, he can take her to court again. Dh is telling me we can't go until he gets his kids. Every time! I'm tired of it. I told him I'm going and taking our dd and we'll have fun with our friends and their family's as planned with or without him. Of course he says I must not like his kids if I can live my life when they aren't around as if.. it's my fault. Yep, for now on I'm living my life, if he wants to miss out on our life and our dd's life he can suffer alone. As usual she'll drop the kids off once she thinks the plans are ruined and they can drive up then and he will guilt and take it out on me. Am I wrong?
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-07-03 17:50:46
ID: 48864
No, DH, I do NOT want to spend the Fourth with your crazy drunk family. Those that don't show up high will show up drunk, and if all goes as it has in the past, the cops might even be called. Tomorrow should have been my Mom's 83rd birthday, but the surgeon cut into her pancreas and she bled to death 8 years ago. I want you to go, though....so I can spend the day ALONE!
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-07-03 02:27:01
ID: 48855
Two years ago today he said he was falling for me. Today, he's been married to someone else for six months already. How does that even happen? I'll tell you how...he was a lying sack of shit manipulator, that's how.
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-07-02 16:21:11
ID: 48854
Boyfriend and I live one hour drive apart and usually only see each other on weekends. We take turns deciding what to do every other weekend. His friends always show up at his apartment without calling first and speaking with one of us to make sure its ok to stop by.. He asked them not to do this this weekend because it was my weekend. They called and when he didint answer the phone, 10 minutes later they were banging on his door. We were in BED..:) Anyway, I asked him to ask them to leave because it was my weekend, and I wanted some time alone after driving one hour each way to see him. He said ok, he understood, he would tell them its not a good time and come right back. Instead, as usual, he let them in. I asked to speak with him privately in the bedroom, and asked him when he was going to ask them to leave. He said "I can't they are my friends" So I grabbed my stuff and stormed out. This is not the first time this has happened, but it the first time left I because of it .
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