My ex decided long ago he wants nothing to do with our young child, he doesn't want to be a dad because it puts a cramp in his dating life and freedom. One day last year her assaulted me, I ran to call 911 but he pleaded with me not to. He agreed to pay a certain amount in child support if I didn't call. He even signed an agreement on paper. It lasted 1 month, then started giving me less and less (but still more than what courts would make him pay). He's changing his story now, saying he was under duress when he agreed to it. It was his idea, not mine. Recently we made a new agreement, but later (when I found something out about him) he admitted he scammed me again and made an agreement just to get what he wants. So eff him, I took him & his car off my policy, getting a refund and he can deal with getting stopped by the cops! He's never had to deal with the consequences of his actions, he always blames other people for his screw ups.