Posted by: anonymous
2017-09-24 03:12:54
ID: 50739
He texted me this morning, waking me up, and asking me when I'd have time to talk about work. After we talked he texted me again a few hours later, asking for someone's number and sending me an article, asking if I'd read it yet. Usually we don't talk on weekends. This is new.
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-09-22 16:48:08
ID: 50706
Just hung up on DH. We are apart for a year. He has our 12 yr.old. I called and he said he was busy, he'd call later. Except its 3 hours later for me and I am dead tired at the end of the week. I said I was so tired, and got a huge diatribe about how tired HE is and our son is. I guess I am not allowed to be tired. Or call them at an inopportune time (b/c I am psychic) ... I;m sad.
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-09-22 16:47:31
ID: 50705
I really had to think about when the last time was that I had a case of the what ifs, and it was at a restaurant. After some self-reflection, I realized that restaurants are the only places where I think, what if? What if I had gotten the sausage roll instead of the pasta? What if the burger was better than the pizza I ordered? Food regret > relationships, apparently, lol.
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-09-22 01:30:50
ID: 50680
What was the movie??! Dying here!
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-09-22 01:26:27
ID: 50687
There is something to be said about older guys. These young guys in their 30's don't know how to please a woman. Men in their 50's though, OMG!!!!
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-09-21 16:48:58
ID: 50678
My ex decided long ago he wants nothing to do with our young child, he doesn't want to be a dad because it puts a cramp in his dating life and freedom. One day last year her assaulted me, I ran to call 911 but he pleaded with me not to. He agreed to pay a certain amount in child support if I didn't call. He even signed an agreement on paper. It lasted 1 month, then started giving me less and less (but still more than what courts would make him pay). He's changing his story now, saying he was under duress when he agreed to it. It was his idea, not mine. Recently we made a new agreement, but later (when I found something out about him) he admitted he scammed me again and made an agreement just to get what he wants. So eff him, I took him & his car off my policy, getting a refund and he can deal with getting stopped by the cops! He's never had to deal with the consequences of his actions, he always blames other people for his screw ups.
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-09-21 04:04:02
ID: 50664
I don't really think about what ifs. I don't know why, not like everything is perfect, it's natural I think. I do think "what if" I had not done something specific one night because it literally changed the course of my life completely, right down to even the clothes I wear. But it's out of curiosity. I'd like to meet different "versions" of myself. But it's not because I regret it.
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-09-20 22:54:00
ID: 50650
My colleague suggested I watch this movie because I might be able to relate to the parenting issues in it, so I did. The woman in the movie had the same problems with her son that I do. She had the same marriage problems that I do, which I had told him about recently. The husband also, coincidentally, looks like my husband, has the same personality. and the same accent. The woman in the movie had the same career as me. She also has an affair with a younger guy who looks like my colleague. Seriously- these two people look a lot like us. I was floored. I think he might have been thinking about me when he was watching it. It was hard for me to watch. I don't know how to feel about it. Over the weekend he kept telling me I should watch this movie, and kept telling me about the character. Finally he said, "She ends up cheating on her husband." That was probably what convinced me to watch it.
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Posted by: greensquirrel
2017-09-20 19:35:10
ID: 50640
I have some what ifs in my life, but they're mostly like "what if I hadn't had an abusive father? What would I be like? Would I be happier? Less anxious? would I have escaped the cloud of depression that hovers over me? Would I be more successful? Less worried about failure?" I think about it a lot actually. I do ok, I mean, I've done alright, but I just wonder if I hadn't had an abusive, unsupportive upbringing who and what I could have been.
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-09-19 22:48:06
ID: 50631
I don't regret any of my past exes. I'm so, so glad I dodged all those bullets. PHEW!!
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