I'm divorced and looking to meet someone again. I've gone on many coffee dates to meet online guys, and this has happened with more than a few of them... we'll chat for awhile and then we politely say goodbye. Then they'll send me a nice text or an email saying they really liked me and they ask when can we meet again. I politely replied saying I didn't think we were a match, but it was nice meeting them and I wish them luck in their search. Then they reply back with the most ugly hateful words, ripping me apart. Ugh, it's not a fun process. I've learned to be as vague with information as possible until I know the guy a little better. And this is a good reason to break the news that you're not interested once you've parted ways, instead of face to face.