I broke up with him. he managed to really piss me off before we stopped talking forever. I told him we wanted different things out of the relationship and he argued that that wasn’t true. So I explained he wants a relationship where 2 people are eachithers everything, and I don’t want that. He argued that that’s the definition of a relationship. No, I want someone to be a part of my life and their presence enhances it. I don’t want someone who wants to spend every free second with me, all our friends are the same people, and we have all the same hobbies. He puts a note in a book he gave back to me saying he hopes I can heal and learn to open up so I can “truly love someone again and know what a real relationship is” i’m the bad guy for not wanting the same thing as him, and that somehow makes me wrong. Idc if he tells other people that, but don’t tell me that when it’s just not true. I’ll be over it by morning, i’m sure.