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Posted by: anonymous
2017-06-20 20:41:05
ID: 48628
I am SO frustrated with my DH. He gets three days a week off. His job is stressful, that I totally get. But he is such a lump and doesn't do shit that needs done and it makes me totally crazy!! Like maybe two hours worth of work, you can't carve out time? Seriously the main job he had was mowing and I've hired it out. I'm like, if you don't want to do shit fine. But pick Up OT to pay for it. Ugh. Makes me SO mad!! I don't shirk my responsibilities!
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-06-20 20:39:31
ID: 48645
Currently riding the struggle bus. We've been together 12 years and for the first 10 I didn't really have friends I liked hanging out with. He's never had any that he likes hanging out with either. But now I do, and DH isn't really adapting well. Plus, our schedules are pretty different so we haven't been able to spend much quality time together. We are planning a long vacation soon and I hope we can work things out during it.
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-06-20 19:37:37
ID: 48651
Wow, he seems mature....something seems off in your relationship. If something is bothering him, why can't he man up and discuss it with you? Instead of you having to wonder and worry about what his problem is? He sounds like a passive aggressive jackass.
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-06-20 16:33:23
ID: 48643
Still not speaking to me and completely ignoring any attempt I have made at friendly conversation. I am tired. I am stressed from this. I don't know what's going on. My dh is my *only* friend. I have nobody else. I haven't spoken to an adult since he stopped talking. I'm literally sick from trying to figure out what is going on.
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-06-20 12:06:10
ID: 48640
In response to a confession. Your memory loss isn't something that needs therapy it is something that needs a doctor. It can be something as simple as your diet affecting your memory. I used to have trouble remembering anything and I thought it was just me and how I was until I cut out all sugar from my diet. My memory has improved greatly and I no longer have the same struggles that I used to.
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-06-19 18:47:42
ID: 48626
My ex is a Narcissist, which is why I left him. One thing he is notorious for is making bad impulse decisions. From the beginning, he's always asked my input because he knows I think things through before making a decision. Every time I tell him what I think he should do, I also tell him why, and I tell him why other options are not right. That way he knows why I made that decision. But he always chooses the opposite...then later, crap hits the fan and he tells me how right I was and he should have chose what I said. And every time he made a bad decision, guess who had to fix everything? ME. Even as ex's, I'm still cleaning up his messes. If I don't, it could negatively effect our DD. If I don't clean up his messes, he doesn't clean them up either. I went almost a year not helping him and everything exploded, which means now he can only afford to pay less than half of his support payments.
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-06-19 17:53:34
ID: 48622
In response to a confession. Or maybe he's being a tool by ignoring you and not telling you what's wrong! Don't assume you did something.
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-06-19 12:34:52
ID: 48617
My DH and I are not talking and I don't even know why. He won't acknowledge me at all when we're alone. I thought we were fine. We went to a party with DS, and DH talked to me and laughed the whole time. We got in the truck, and suddenly I no longer existed. I don't remember doing anything, but that doesn't mean much. Sometimes I don't even remember 30 seconds ago, much less remember something I might have said 24 hours ago. I need therapy or something for that, but that's a whole different problem. We had such a nice day on Saturday, I hate it's been messed up by something I probably did. Blah.
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-06-18 19:41:04
ID: 48604
All I've heard is complaining for the last month. Nothing is good enough. If I did anything correctly in this asshole's eye I would go into shock! Pool now is getting torn down because he "might" need to dig near it! Nothing confirmed but I need to take it down! I need to move the chickens that are to young into the big coup.(So the older ones will kill them) Not happening until they are old enough. He ran my gas out 3/4 tank yesterday, has been complaining since I woke up that I should have put more in. He doesn't want to drive his. Now he told me we are fixing a wall today. No I'm leaving and not coming home until tonight. I'm done listening to what he thinks I have to do while driving around wasting my gas, doing nothing! I'm not a employee or his servant. I'm done. I do it all while working fulltime, listening to him bitch about nothing just to complain. What the hell happened? My job is not as stressful as being at home!
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-06-18 00:12:39
ID: 48599
I subscribe to Dr. Pimple Popper's YouTube page. I showed DH a picture of this huge guy with like a zillion zits and blackheads on his back. I told him that if he ever gets like that, I probably won't want to have sex with him. He thought I was kidding. I was not.
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