I don't have a problem with a dh never grocery shopping because that's not one of his chores. My problem with these confessions is that they make the husbands seem like total dipshits because they can't find a simple item in the store, or they don't get any of the items requested at all. I get that in some families, mine included, it's the wife that shops, no biggie. But if my dh stops on the way home for me because I need butter and he comes home with no butter because he "couldn't find it" but has twinkies, doritos, soda, etc.etc. then yes, I judge.