Posted by: greensquirrel
2017-07-26 19:51:14
ID: 49351
In response to a confession. So you just wanted to completely agree with me. Got it. Let me clarify one more time since you're not understanding: I would leave if my dh was terrible regardless of how it affected me financially, but now I don't have to worry about ending up in a precarious financial situation. Agree with me again, please. Attitude, pffft, look in the mirror.
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-07-26 19:25:09
ID: 49343
In response to a confession. Aw, thanks, but I am pretty much a huge dumbass, lol. I just didn't know what I had when I had it. He waited as long as he could for me to get my shit together, but eventually he moved back to his home state... 1200 miles away from me. He has a gf now, and is happy, and I would never do anything to come in between them. We acknowledged, before he moved, that we'll always love each other and have a special bond between us, but that things just didn't work out. Maybe in another lifetime. He's one of the coolest people I've ever met. But, yeah, I'm an idiot and his gf is a lucky woman.
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-07-26 19:09:58
ID: 49350
In response to a confession. I suppose you were more clear even though I wasn't needing clarification I was just saying how I felt if that were my scenario. Fuck my "high standard of living" and financial dependency from my DH. My DH makes more than I do right now, but I don't depend on him for my financial stability. I'll be fine with or without him. And your little attitude can go away. So unnecessary.
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Posted by: greensquirrel
2017-07-26 18:23:34
ID: 49348
In response to a confession. You misunderstand my op. I would leave without any hesitation if my dh did something awful to me, our ds or our pets. No hesitation. Out the door. If he verbally abused me and called me names or was malicious, same again, out that door. I don't have the patience or ability to forgive and forget that kind of behavior. I've always said that and I wholeheartedly mean it. Even if it meant having nothing or living in my parents basement and never buying another Naked palette. Now, now I can do that and still have a high standard of living. I don't need him financially. Understand? Get it? Was I more clear?
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-07-26 05:43:10
ID: 49286
In response to a confession. I hear you. Something similar happened to me, only it was an ice storm and my brother and his wife. We let them stay with us, but a year later when we needed a place to stay overnight it was nothing but crickets. Never again. Sorry you're dealing with all that. Hugs to you!
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-07-26 05:42:41
ID: 49287
Electricity out post - Honestly, I know this is so direct, but that's my style. I would have either asked my BFF to stay, directly and over the phone, or posted asking for friends to put me up. A post saying all hotels are full is, to me, indirect and unclear (I really have a hard time to make that leap - that the person wants me to offer - I can make the leap it's just a little harder bc I'm very literal). Its seems a bit like a test and passive aggressive. No? I see where u r coming from but....
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-07-26 05:41:41
ID: 49328
Dh is a dumbass. I have the code to his phone. He doesn't know. I saw him enter it when he was drunk. I have deleted things off his phone such as pics of women, phone numbers of women, messages from women and stuff/people off his Facebook. I don't think he's cheating. There's no sign of that. He's an alcoholic and I get off on messing with him. He gets flirty sometimes though. Sad I do this, but I can't stand him and his drinking. And no I'm not going to divorce him or leave him until I can on my feet. Been married 25+ years....
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-07-26 05:37:12
ID: 49282
In response to a confession. Im sure you are not an idiot and its not all your fault. Why cant you be together?
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-07-26 02:19:38
ID: 49334
I'm 46 years old. I haven't had sex in years because dh's penis doesn't work. He won't go to the doctor to fix it! I don't want a divorce. But I want sex sometimes. I'm currently looking for a fwb! I don't want a relationship, just sex sometimes.
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-07-26 01:21:35
ID: 49337
In response to a confession. She isn't disabled, she just doesn't want to work (unlike the rest of us, I guess, who do it for fun). I did talk to her about using those 4 years to get a degree, and I think she is looking into local colleges. But I think she is already getting a rude awaking. She seems surprised that people aren't entitled to money just because they want it.
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