I will not get tested. I don't need to. I know my husband, you don't. He isn't overcompensating for anything, he genuinely loves me and cares for me and respects his/our marriage. Believe it or not, my DH is actually a good man, husband, father, son, friend, employee etc. He doesn't have social media, reads the real newspaper, rarely watches tv, reads to our children, is funny and likes to stay home. I shouldn't have to defend my husband to you, but you need to know, not everyone out here is cheating. I wonder how many people are telling your husband (or ex?) or current bf or new DH to get tested knowing you are a cheater. Also, don't conclude about anything or anyone's marriage "based on the internet".