If DH & I are starting to get really annoyed with each other we say, "You're stupid, I hate you!" It's just what we say. It's just a phrase we use to try to ease tension, we don't mean it and we both know it. I dunno, the dish conversation described in 46986 sounds like one DH & I might have. If he did dishes, LOL. More likely we'd have that little convo over how he folds laundry.