Posted by: anonymous
2017-06-21 03:42:31
ID: 48659
My DH acted like he was going to hit me tonight. In that moment I was so pissed, how dare he even consider it. I didn't flinch. I challenged him and said if he does it, I will make sure he suffers the rest of his life. We calmed down and he apologized. But everything has changed now. I just feel disgust. Add me to the planning to leave club.
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-06-21 03:40:45
ID: 48652
Done with one of my coworkers. The only interaction I get from her on FB is when I make a post about being aggravated by something - which isn't often! Most of my posts are lighthearted, funny, sharing cool pictures/experiences, telling a story where I learned a valuable lesson, sharing a memory from childhood. Obviously she doesn't read any of those, nor the ones I make about gratitude, kindness, compassion and being positive. But if I make a post about being upset about something, she comes on and tells me to be grateful, kind, compassionate and positive. HELLUVA fucking day today. Excruciating migraine resulting in two hours' sleep, every house around me having work done starting at 8, 2 people coming to my house to fix stuff, solicitors, road work, dog barking at it all, missed a meeting, non-stop noise for 8 hours. CW: "At least you woke up this morning to experience all of this." UNFRIENDED
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-06-21 01:53:15
ID: 48657
I think marriage sucks, too. Seems like women always get the short end. More labor, emotional and physical. Men are praised and exalted when they cook, clean, provide childcare. If they don't do it right it's like, aww look at that adorable daddy doing his best, cut him slack. Women are expected to keep house, raise kids, stay pretty and be a "badass" at work. If​ they don't perform well in any of those areas they aren't making it. I know not all situations are alike but generally speaking I think this the case. I'm not sure we're going forward in the area of equal rights. I actually think we're going backwards.
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-06-20 20:41:05
ID: 48628
I am SO frustrated with my DH. He gets three days a week off. His job is stressful, that I totally get. But he is such a lump and doesn't do shit that needs done and it makes me totally crazy!! Like maybe two hours worth of work, you can't carve out time? Seriously the main job he had was mowing and I've hired it out. I'm like, if you don't want to do shit fine. But pick Up OT to pay for it. Ugh. Makes me SO mad!! I don't shirk my responsibilities!
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-06-20 20:39:31
ID: 48645
Currently riding the struggle bus. We've been together 12 years and for the first 10 I didn't really have friends I liked hanging out with. He's never had any that he likes hanging out with either. But now I do, and DH isn't really adapting well. Plus, our schedules are pretty different so we haven't been able to spend much quality time together. We are planning a long vacation soon and I hope we can work things out during it.
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-06-20 19:37:37
ID: 48651
Wow, he seems mature....something seems off in your relationship. If something is bothering him, why can't he man up and discuss it with you? Instead of you having to wonder and worry about what his problem is? He sounds like a passive aggressive jackass.
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-06-20 16:33:23
ID: 48643
Still not speaking to me and completely ignoring any attempt I have made at friendly conversation. I am tired. I am stressed from this. I don't know what's going on. My dh is my *only* friend. I have nobody else. I haven't spoken to an adult since he stopped talking. I'm literally sick from trying to figure out what is going on.
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-06-20 12:06:10
ID: 48640
In response to a confession. Your memory loss isn't something that needs therapy it is something that needs a doctor. It can be something as simple as your diet affecting your memory. I used to have trouble remembering anything and I thought it was just me and how I was until I cut out all sugar from my diet. My memory has improved greatly and I no longer have the same struggles that I used to.
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-06-19 18:47:42
ID: 48626
My ex is a Narcissist, which is why I left him. One thing he is notorious for is making bad impulse decisions. From the beginning, he's always asked my input because he knows I think things through before making a decision. Every time I tell him what I think he should do, I also tell him why, and I tell him why other options are not right. That way he knows why I made that decision. But he always chooses the opposite...then later, crap hits the fan and he tells me how right I was and he should have chose what I said. And every time he made a bad decision, guess who had to fix everything? ME. Even as ex's, I'm still cleaning up his messes. If I don't, it could negatively effect our DD. If I don't clean up his messes, he doesn't clean them up either. I went almost a year not helping him and everything exploded, which means now he can only afford to pay less than half of his support payments.
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-06-19 17:53:34
ID: 48622
In response to a confession. Or maybe he's being a tool by ignoring you and not telling you what's wrong! Don't assume you did something.
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