My situation is that I'm married, for now. Not sure about my future with dh. My old hs bf lives across the country but is single and would reunite in a heartbeat. I'm not saying it would ever happen, even if I get a divorce, but it's a nice daydream, reminiscing about him and our passionate first love. All the 80s hairbands ballads remind me of him, so if nothing else it's sweet memories.