Rant- We have been very strict about SIP. I go out maybe 1-2x per month. Yesterday I wanted to take a drive down the coast, back to my hometown. It would have been my dad's birthday. All I wanted was to see the beach, even if we couldn't walk on it. DH said he was busy working. Tomorrow he said. I said, okay, I understand. Well, this morning I started making plans, but he said he'd heard traffic was bad, no one was following SIP, and it was a bad idea, so I started a house project instead. In the middle of that he asked, "Well, do you want to go for a drive now?" "No," I told him. "I WANTED to go for a drive. This morning. Now I'm in the middle of this, and I'm hot, and I'm tired." That seemed TOO CONFUSING for him to understand. WTF dude?