Bf of 4 yrs had a really bad day at work yesterday, texted that he was so tired that he honestly didn't know what to do anymore. I know he hates his job (been there for 1.5 yrs), but I haven't heard him sound this low. He came home listened to me vent about my sh*tty day and when I tried to ask he was he didn't want to talk about it. I gave him space, he went to bed early. This morning he was kinda griping about things and still not like himself. I tried to ask him again and still no. His job is impacting our relationship - he has so much to do that all he does is work in his downtime, complain about it, and I feel I can only support so much bc my job isn't perfect, either. On another note, I'm really enjoying talking to my male coworker - we Gchatted for 1hr during work and it brigthened up my day. I worry though that I'm having emotional affair, but justify its okay because he's moving, anyway. I know I need help working through this and start to see my therapist again.