The house (and possibly the entire vaca) has been canceled - bc dh has been lying to me AND his friends. Been having long talks w/ the wife (who is nice, contrary to what dh has been telling me!). Had a feeling she sent me a FB request bc she knew we were all going together. (I'd asked dh that but he said no.) Turns out that the 3 of them have been planning this for a month as a couple's trip, and he told them I knew that. Apparently this trip was for them and I to get to know each other before our big couple's trip next summer. Dh said was planning that for us, and later said they wanted to join us. But it was THEY who were planning it for themselves, and had asked him if WE wanted to join THEM. They thought I was lying until I sent them his texts to me about both of the trips. He told them I didn't want to go to the first place, to book somewhere in the other state. Too many other lies to list. Their friendship and our marriage is teetering. I am so mindfucked right now.