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Posted by: anonymous
2017-03-15 03:48:11
ID: 45751
In response to a confession. This totally. Had lunch with my hs bf and the situation quickly took a turn for the weirdly ugly. Tattoos with my name were revealed. A plan to leave a wife and move in with me was revealed. No, I didn't sleep with him, didn't even kiss him, what a nightmare and I'll never speak to him again. You can't go back although it seems many people try. I hope he found peace with his life.
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-03-15 02:05:27
ID: 45730
In response to a confession. Who ever said it was simple?? Just because its hard doesn't mean it can't be done.
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-03-14 23:54:24
ID: 45748
After my divorce I started texting my old hs bf, who was single and still interested. We met for drinks one night, it was awkward and I realized we had just grown apart from our hs days. I'm glad I went though, killed that fantasy real quick! And realized I wasted many hours daydreaming about him.
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-03-14 23:51:00
ID: 45747
In response to a confession. Even if I was welcome I wouldn't want to live in my inlaws basement...yuck. Maybe when they die I could see moving in and taking over but otherwise, no thanks!
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-03-14 20:33:05
ID: 45737
I used to be a casual smoker then quit about 5 yrs ago. My dh is a heavy chain smoker. He used to not be so bad but now it's out of control. I don't mind when people some around me, it doesn't bother me at all. But lately he is really reeking more that usual. His clothes, his car, even when he showers the bathroom stinks like a wet ashtray. It has become the biggest turn off ever. Plus he has a few beers at night so you can imagine his breath. I hate sleeping next to him at night. Even after he brushes his teeth I can smell it on him. He won't quit either. Not sure what to do.
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-03-14 19:19:54
ID: 45734
Plus I'm sure it's not too easy just to walk out of a marriage if there are kids to think about. That's probably why many people stay in a marriage way beyond its expiration date.
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-03-14 19:17:22
ID: 45733
To the ones missing your first/High school boyfriend: are you really missing the person himself or just the nostalgia and the good old times and feelings of that powerful first love? Would it be the same now if you were to get back together with him? Now that you're not carefree youngsters? Now there are mortgages, kids, exes, etc.. not being snarky, just curious.
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-03-14 17:54:40
ID: 45717
In response to a confession. If it were that simple, a lot of us would probably be single right now.
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-03-14 05:33:28
ID: 45718
Realization: two years ago, my ex-long-distance-boyfriend and I got back together after a breakup and had video sex for the first time one night, and then again the next morning. I remember in the morning, hearing a man's voice in the background saying, "well, HELLO!" Just realized he must have added a friend to our video chat at that moment, someone that I wasn't able to see, but who could see me...completely. He brushed off the voice as nothing, but he wasn't into the sex that morning, and now I get why. Trying to process this. I know with all my heart that that's what he did. I just hadn't realized he was that much of a scumbag until now. I feel really used.
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-03-14 05:30:44
ID: 45712
In a perfect world, no one would care if people filed for divorce. In reality, there's still a stigma. I lost a few friends and family members who thought my ex was this sweet, innocent man. I was demonized because no one really knew what a dick he could be. Divorce is a huge, life-changing decision that turns your whole world upsidedown. It's easy to say live your life, but life just isn't that simple. Of course, I'm glad I got divorced, but it fucking sucked going through the process.
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