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Posted by: anonymous
2018-06-17 14:39:40
ID: 55401
In response to a confession. Age 43. 3 serious boyfriends, several not so serious boyfriends. Kissed a lot of guys and a few women. Had sex with roughly a dozen guys and 3 women. Never just given a handjob or blowjob to a guy I wasn’t screwing but have had a few guys who have just gone down on me and/or fingered me. Married now for 18 yrs. Mostly happy, but sometimes have a hard time with it, TBH.
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Posted by: anonymous
2018-06-17 09:40:42
ID: 55382
If anyone can tell me how they successfully set boundaries with their spouse's family. The short story is: I love my husband, we do not have kids together (but both have adult children). His family gatherings are dead energy, half are depressed, his mom is toxic. I want him to go to as many get togethers as he wants. I will go to a lot less. Why is this so hard? Anyone who has done this, I'd love to hear how you did it and processed it yourself so you were at peace.
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Posted by: anonymous
2018-06-17 09:40:03
ID: 55389
I literally JUST got done posting that my kids are doing something nice for DH and Father's day, and DS called me. He wanted to know what DH might want for a gift. His exact words? "He definitely deserves to be recognized for Father's day, he's put in enough effort over the years."
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Posted by: anonymous
2018-06-17 09:39:30
ID: 55397
In response to a confession. I was also married to an unpredictable guy who flew into a rage over any little thing. It was unbelievable how he treated me and I made it for 10 years but don't know how. He was also an alcoholic and abusive. OP, if he won't admit he has a problem, you're doing the right thing to dump him. This is the kind of man that divorce was created for. Living with a person like that is living hell and I believe that once this behavior starts HE has already broken the marriage.
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Posted by: anonymous
2018-06-16 23:20:29
ID: 55396
In response to a confession. Age 50. Dozens of boyfriends through the years. 3 husbands since the age of 18. Sex with over 50 through the years. Kissed hundreds, but some of that is participating in kissing booths for charity. Grew up attending church because it was required, but I've been an atheist since I was a young child. Been married to THIS man since 2007, and completely faithful.
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Posted by: anonymous
2018-06-16 21:58:23
ID: 55395
In response to a confession. DH and I have been married almost 30 years. We don't buy birthday, anniversary or Christmas gifts but we always exchange cards and plan dinners, getaways, etc. We buy each other stuff throughout the year so gifts aren't a big deal. We both wear our wedding rings though.
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Posted by: anonymous
2018-06-16 20:59:57
ID: 55393
I grew up in church too. 3 serious boyfriends, sex with only 1...the one I ended up marrying. Kissed probably 5 or 6 guys. I've only ever given my DH a handjob or a blowjob. I may have not experimented with many guys, but I have a pretty damn good sex life now. My DH always makes me O and we have sex at least 2 times a week. After being married for 13 years, I think that's not so bad.
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Posted by: anonymous
2018-06-16 20:57:46
ID: 55392
my boss has been married for over 30 years. she said she and her husband don't really celebrate any holidays, birthdays, or anniversaries anymore. they don't even wear their wedding rings. she said they've been together for so long they don't see the need. I've only been married a few years but i hope DH and i never get that way. i like celebrating things, love seeing him wear his band, and love wearing mine.
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Posted by: anonymous
2018-06-16 20:20:38
ID: 55388
My kids are finally at the point where they do something nice for their stepdad (DH) without me needing to remind them. I asked DD "Please don't forget to get DH a card," and she stopped me "Already done, mom. (DS) & I got this." It's nice. He's a good stepdad, and he deserves to be recognized on Father's day.
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Posted by: anonymous
2018-06-16 17:55:50
ID: 55385
Seven boyfriends. No idea how many men I've kissed. Had sex with twelve. (Some would consider that a lot, but I don't.) I don't like giving hand jobs, so I've never done that. Married one man, for almost 20 years. Did not grow up in church.
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