Just to catch everyone on the night crew up to speed about the disasters below. I commented that I thought people entertaining "what ifs" about exes was a little cringey and gross and I wasn't sure why I felt that way. I was called weird and asked to attempt to reason that feeling. I said MAYBE because it was a display of discontent, even though people that do the "what iffing" would claim to feel content when doing so. This upset people and we went back and forth on this, and I said that you could "what if" multiple ways, but "what iffing" for someone better in a relationship , could not also mean you were 100% content. This is still the point of contention that leads to things like, " I think what if I had fish for dinner, and I'm content, got ya archer". So that's that, it's disappointing that I couldn't have just had an unpopular opinion, but it's been interesting, and I'm not upset with anyone, I still think most here are alright humans. Cheers.