Posted by: anonymous

2020-07-20 13:28:32

ID: 64994

Jesus Christ, will you EVER get off the phone? I need to talk to you.

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Posted by: anonymous

2020-07-19 22:52:02

ID: 64988

I will set more boundaries with her. I can't take her calls because she will trigger my stress & anxiety. I need to take care of myself first and heal from past childhood trauma. Self care needs to be my #1 priority.

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Posted by: anonymous

2020-07-19 22:33:41

ID: 64985

DH is unemployed right now and he is working on these projects around our farm and that's fine, but he doesn't do hardly any of the main housework. He will unload the dishwasher every day but I've asked him if he can do laundry and vacuum and cook and he "forgets" all the time. It's because the house looking nice isn't important to him and it's making me resent the hell out of him because it DOES matter to me and I work FT so I don't have all the time I'd like to get the house clean.

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Posted by: Spectra

2020-07-18 23:27:58

ID: 64972

So...my dad told me yesterday that he started dating a woman about a month ago and things are starting to get serious. It sounds like she is very sweet and going to be a good companion for him now that Mom's gone. She wanted him to find someone else after she died and I don't feel bad that he met someone, but it's a little weird. However...she is my dad's age and that's all I care about. I just didn't want him dating someone my age. I haven't met her yet, but I hope she's cool and that I might get a new stepmom to get to know.

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Posted by: anonymous

2020-07-16 21:05:45

ID: 64960

My fam sent me a package. A drawing by my nephew, healthy baked goods by sis, friendship bracelet by other sis, and sunflower seeds for planting. This was the sweetest package ever! Even though I have not see family since Covid and miss them dearly, this pandemic has brought us closer. It's helped heal past grievances.

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Posted by: anonymous

2020-07-16 20:22:24

ID: 64959

It's so weird. I posted about this cute doctor that treated me for an injury in hospital, and I swear I'd never seen this guy before in my life. Now I've ran into him three times in a week. It's a sizeable city and things are starting to open up so there's loads of people around. Some coincidence. The last time we ended up nerding out over shared fandoms and now we're going for a drink as soon as we can actually get into a bar.

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Posted by: anonymous

2020-07-15 23:39:16

ID: 64953

I received a lot of love from my family and friends on my bday. I am so grateful for them!

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Posted by: anonymous

2020-07-15 23:28:56

ID: 64952

Mom she doesn't speak English. We help her translate her paperwork. This is just what we have to do.

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Posted by: anonymous

2020-07-15 03:02:40

ID: 64943

My mom had a breakdown again. It was smaller compared to last time, but I still had an emotional reaction. I told her not to yell at me and raised my voice. I was more reactive than I would have liked. I wish I didn't get triggered so much, but she immediately goes to worst case scenarios and blows things out of proportion. This issue was regarding housing and how my brother couldn't help her with something, she immediately thought she would be homeless if she didn't turn it in. She has an undiagnosed mental illness and its hard to talk sense since life has been a struggle. I need to just be firm, give her facts and not be reactive. I almost cried talking to her. Again, did not think our call would get me triggered. Ugh, so much healing I need to do around my family. I wish my brother would just help her, but I get he's really tired and triggered, too.

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Posted by: anonymous

2020-07-12 22:00:19

ID: 64920

I wonder what it's like to have people in your life not criticize every fucking thing you do. I don't think I'm that dysfunctional of a person, but it seems like every single thing I do in life, I get criticism from my DH or my family. Can I just get a little bit of encouragement? Geez.

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