I think I'm ready to leave my dh. It's been brewing for awhile now, he's emotionally unavailable and is the one that has offered me zero support when my mom died a month ago. He sleeps on the couch anyway, and we haven't had sex or any other physical affection since at least October. I've had a p/t job for years, I hate to quit now, my boss is in his upper 70s and has been very good to me. I guess I'm going to start saving money and as soon as he retires and I go full time then I will leave. My dh has not reached out or made one single attempt to fix our relationship, and I'm done trying. I can't fix it on my own.