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Posted by: anonymous
2017-02-10 17:30:39
ID: 44793
My DH travels for business and I love it. He's a great guy but extremely high energy and being around him all the time can exhaust me. Having him out of the house for a week or two lets me get stuff done
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-02-10 05:08:13
ID: 44789
Dh's Native American name is Little Shrimp Dick.
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-02-09 19:18:31
ID: 44777
A couple days ago I was telling my friend how I am the QUEEN of Murphy's Law and gave her several examples. Well, here we go again. I'm the one who's dh - who is a huge talker - took two days off from work and was all in my hair when I just wanted some alone time. Well he took off yesterday, too. (He's using up sick time.) While he did leave for a couple hours to do errands, when he came back we had to prepare for today's snowstorm. Preparing the cars, securing the yard and tools, hauling extra firewood into the house, getting the snow shovels in place, picking up extras at the store. While he did go back to work today, ds' school closed for the impending 6-8". We got a grand total of 1" and the sun is out. I have to work tomorrow, Sat and Sun. I just wanted the house to myself for one day! Looking forward to Monday lol.
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-02-09 14:57:29
ID: 44770
I'm 26 years old and have no friends and haven't had a date in 6 years. I'm so tired of being lonely I just can't take it anymore.
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-02-09 14:56:49
ID: 44773
I've noticed something really weird about myself - I was with a great guy, who was slow to show his feelings - so, I intuited the atmosphere and never was to clingy or said "I love you" etc. it was a deep and caring relationship but I sensed from him how I would interact. Then, I started dating this kind of needy, put the cart before the horse guy who said I love you within days or weeks and wanted to run off together - completely unrealistic. I respected his ability to take such risks, honestly, even if I wasn't comfortable doing the same (and didn't feel the same). But with him, I mirrored very different "acceptable" behavior - being more emotionally volatile, waking away and coming back (figuratively) over and over and over ad nauseam. Much drama. Reading this, realizing, I don't like this - it looks as if I am not my own person. I don't feel that way though- I think of myself as adaptable. Is there any positive side of this story, really, though? Or is this pathetic on my part?
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-02-08 19:27:00
ID: 44759
In response to a confession. There is also the flip side. I have seen it many times, where the gf is fun, career driven and has interests, takes care of herself etc. Right up until the wedding. Then she lets it all go, gets fat, cuts her hair and stops having sex because all she wanted was babies.
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-02-08 13:55:35
ID: 44757
My DH is a pilot so I totally get the alone time thing. Luckily he likes alone time to decompress.
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-02-07 23:09:17
ID: 44751
So my DH told me that a lot of older guys who get divorced do it because they get stressed out about having to be the breadwinner and the stress makes them resent their wife. Then they become more and more verbally and emotionally and possibly physically abusive until the wife ends up really hating him. Then she asks for a divorce and the guy is all of a sudden devastated and mopey and lonely. Sorry, but I don't feel sorry for those guys. There is no excuse for being an asshole to your wife.
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-02-07 17:44:41
ID: 44737
Dh is on the road the majority of time for work. This benefits me because I need a lot of quiet/alone time. He's currently in the middle of a 2-month local project, and home at 3 every day. Ugh. Yesterday he decided to work from home to catch up on paperwork. When he was done he said we should take advantage of the warm weather to clean up the trees that snapped from the recent high winds. After 5 hours of work we could barely move. Today I got ds off to school and crawled back into bed for a bit, where dh proceeds to tell me that he's taking a sick day - FML! -and tries to start a conversation. I told him I needed more sleep and a bit of quiet today. I finally got up at 9 and before I even had two sips of coffee, he starts talking about something on FB. EIGHTEEN STRAIGHT MINUTES. And he keeps trying to show me videos from YouTube. I'm telling him I need to go to the office to do paperwork but I'm really going to the library for some fucking quiet.
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-02-06 23:05:58
ID: 44726
My DH loves having his ego stroked. The problem is, I suck at that. I just suck at openly complimenting him all the time and telling him how great he is all the time. I have to wonder if it's because he never compliments me or says really nice things to me.
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