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Posted by: anonymous
2017-02-18 17:38:37
ID: 45001
In response to a confession. I hear you. I ended something (trying to - he makes it easy to draw this out) after only about 4 months - unreconcilable differences haha - and it is SO hard, day to day. He isn't even great for me and it's hard. It was such a short time, and it's hard ... I am trying L-thenine - something like that from green tea - trying to up my mood. Doesn't seem to help. Not to hijack your post. I miss my guy, but in my case it's the attention, and I know it. :(
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-02-18 11:19:48
ID: 44994
I am going through a huge funk. I broke up with someone in December and am still not over it. This breakup has been even harder than the end of my marriage. I have tried meeting new guys since the breakup, but all I can think about his him. This is why I don't even want to fall in love again. It's just too hard.
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-02-17 22:45:39
ID: 44983
I guess I never thought much about email spying. DH leaves his email open all the time. All he ever gets are emails from auction sites like ebay notifying him of new listings. Sometimes he gets responses from Craigslist ads for when he sells the odd part or tool. I guess I would be worried if he was really paranoid about me knowing his email password. I don't snoop through his stuff, but he trusts me enough to not need to protect things from me.
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-02-17 19:56:01
ID: 44981
Someone woke up a cranky pants. Not that I blame him with the work schedule... but still, I hope he doesn't expect me to go to his appt with him! I just got back from mine... 31 needles in the skull for migraines. NOT in the mood. I want lunch and my DVR show with no interruptions.
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-02-17 19:53:40
ID: 44980
If I had to enter the dating world again, I might do a little snooping. Maybe not through a phone or email, but I remember they used to have this "When it doubt, check him out" thing where you could find if they had a criminal record. Things have changed so much since I was dating, and since I met my husband. There were no smart phones, no texting... it'd be hard for me to date again. I am not going to say I'd be perfect and never think about investigating. But then I also say I'd stay single forever. Dating is hard.
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-02-17 01:25:52
ID: 44965
Great relationship advice...trust, but verify!
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-02-17 01:15:53
ID: 44964
In response to a confession. While blind trust is a cute idea, women need to protect themselves. My ex became abusive after a few years, first emotional and verbal abuse, and little mind games, then physical abuse.
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-02-16 21:35:29
ID: 44957
In response to a confession. 45 years old and snooping through your bf's email? Wtf?? He sounds like the only adult in your relationship! I'd be pissed if someone did that to me.
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-02-16 20:19:56
ID: 44955
I guessed the password to my boyfriend's email account and snooped last night. We've been together 4 years. He told me that when his ex wife left him, she accused him of physical abuse. I didn't believe he could do that. Wanting to be sure, I read the email exchanges between them around the time she left..not only did they not reference any type of abuse situation, they were incredibly cordial to each other. It's great that he was such an adult during such a trying time, but I wonder if he made up the whole story of abuse thing. Or, maybe they just weren't talking about it over email. At any rate, I don't regret snooping. I'm 45 years old and aint got time for any bullshit.
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-02-16 04:47:10
ID: 44931
In response to a confession. He called. I didn't pick up. So hard not to start communicating again ... but I'm at 48 hrs! But so tempted to see what he'd say. Except he makes me unhappy and is not caring!!!
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