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Posted by: anonymous
2017-02-14 21:51:19
ID: 44914
Whether I was single or with someone, I've never liked Valentine's Day. Too much pressure, the price of roses double or triple, and all the hype!! DH and I decided years ago that we're not participating in all the BS. We may or may not buy cards, but we'll say 'Happy VD' (our little joke) and go about our day. There are 365 days a year to show your love for someone, right?
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-02-14 21:10:54
ID: 44910
Hell no, Dove chocolates aren't the "good" chocolates! They're one step up from Hershey Kisses. Ds spilled the beans because he's 10 and has a big mouth. Anyways, Dove chocolates are better than no chocolates and I have this feeling that I'm getting something much bigger than my usual gift of wine and chocolates and a potted plant.
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-02-14 15:18:11
ID: 44892
I've gone 24 hrs now w/o texting him. It's been hard we used to text A LOT. Then less and now he doesn't give a shit. It's over, but it's hard for me and I feel like an alcoholic counting each moment as it comes - I can choose not to text him in this moment, and again etc...trying to make it stop completely - he just doesn't get me at all!!! :(
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Posted by: Archerl
2017-02-14 05:48:37
ID: 44888
In response to a confession. Nobody called you the B* word, I don't use it or condone it's use. But yeah, I'm free to comment from a stand point of thinking about the people who want even the smallest gesture and get absolutely nothing, and especially because yours was already chalked up to being bad before it had a chance. If you feel you deserve more, that's ok, but it's also ok for me to put your situation into perspective, whether it's positive or negative. I do wish you a Happy Valentine's Day OP.
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-02-14 02:07:56
ID: 44879
In response to a confession. Thats because he is just going through the motions and it doesn't mean anything to him. He does it because you expect /demand it of him and he doesn't want to let you down. That means something.
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-02-14 00:21:22
ID: 44880
I got my DH a bunch of RainX wipes that I'm going to make into a bouquet, his favorite candy, a steak dinner, and a card. The RainX wipes are for his car because he's always talking about how he should put it on the windows but he would never think to buy it for himself. I don't expect anything over the top, but I like when a gift is thoughtful.
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-02-13 21:56:25
ID: 44875
In response to a confession. Yeah, I get it, I'm an unappreciative bitch, right? It's not that I don't appreciate what he gets me, but it would be nice to get flowers that last more than 2 hours and a card that maybe actually says something that he wrote instead of "From DH". I feel like he's just doing it to go through the motions and it doesn't mean anything.
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-02-13 20:09:42
ID: 44869
I love reading these confessions about loving alone time. I always felt like I was weird because I crave that quiet time in my house when everyone is gone. Glad it's not just me!
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-02-13 16:53:11
ID: 44863
I don't like Valentines Day very much. I'm always disappointed. It's not even V-day and I'm already disappointed. I told dh that I wanted good chocolates, like Godiva. I don't care if it's a box of five chocolates vs a whole bag of lesser chocolates. I want the good stuff. Ds told me he bought me Dove chocolates. Sigh. It's like he doesn't even listen to me.
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-02-13 04:24:38
ID: 44840
I think (and I hope) that dh only has two more weeks on this local project before he goes on the road again. My God. I worked Fri and Sat, and today from 11:30-4:30. When I left today he was watching SoA on Netflix. When I got back he was still watching it - even through dinner (but thankfully he cooked, lol). It's 10pm and he's still watching it. I STILL haven't had any time to myself. I was looking forward to tomorrow but it turns out that I have to call the electric company for a mistake on the bill, drop off one car at the mechanic and pick up the other, have an office meeting at 1 (he'll be home at 3) and a client meeting at 5. Tuesday. I'll get some me time on Tuesday. I hope...
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