Posted by: anonymous
2017-04-15 21:40:57
ID: 46718
In response to a confession. Hell no, don't wait around for him to's too short to deal with that shit! I get not leaving him right now, but i feel sorry for you already. Soon you will be working full time AND doing everything around the house. Good luck with that. And taxes are due by Tuesday the 18th this year. When did he plan on doing them? Or was he just stalling til you handled it? Ugh, sorry op, he sounds unbearable.
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-04-15 21:19:51
ID: 46715
In response to a confession. I work part time and I am in school full time. I will be working full time during the summer, but I'm not totally in a place to just up and leave. I think I will tell DH that if he doesn't do the taxes by Monday, I will take them to an accountant and pay someone to do them. That oughta light a fire under his ass. He hates paying anyone to do things for him. He reminds me a lot of my grandpa. My grandma was a bit sad when he died, but I think she was mostly relieved. I don't know if I want to wait that long.
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-04-15 06:12:04
ID: 46700
In response to a confession. Do you work outside the home? I can't imagine marrying someone that didn't cook and clean at least half the time. And do the taxes... no way I can do those sadly- we pay a lot for someone else to do them!
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-04-14 21:09:26
ID: 46690
Our taxes are not super easy. We get rental income and have farm property that we have a land contract on, plus DH has to put some money into the IRA account. I wish they were simple, but DH has to do the transfer since he has access to the accounts and whatnot. I can't leave him right now because I am still in school. I guess he does have a few other redeeming qualities, like he's good at fixing things and he does maintain the cars, but for the most part, he thinks the only thing he has to do is go to work and get a paycheck. I'm not sure if I want to go to more counseling and try to work things out or not--every time we've ever seen a counselor before, DH has yelled at them for "always taking her side" (meaning me). Heaven forbid he be responsible for any of his own behavior.
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-04-14 20:20:32
ID: 46689
In response to a confession. And what the hell is he waiting for? Taxes are due next Tuesday I believe. He does sound like a lazy pos if that's his one responsibility and he can't even handle that. Run, op, run!
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-04-14 19:18:06
ID: 46674
In response to a confession. Your DH sounds like a prize, but why can't you do your own taxes? It's super easy. Why are you with him? Staying solely because he brings a paycheck makes you sound like a prostitute. Are there any redeeming qualities in this man?
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-04-14 18:20:24
ID: 46688
I'm going to Physical Therapy 3x a week for a torn tendon behind my knee. I'm wearing a knee brace and hobbling around. Let's have Easter dinner, says DH. Don't worry, babe. I'll help you get everything done. I'll be home all day Friday to do all the heavy lifting, moving tables and chairs, cleaning the deck, name it. Three hours ago a neighbor two miles away called and he left to take him a submersible pump, with a kiss and 'I'll be back in ten minutes'. He's still not home and everything he promised to do was done by ME. #shitwon'thappentwice
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-04-14 14:25:19
ID: 46679
I'm very close to my three older sisters. It's nice, we all live within five minutes of each other and my parents.
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-04-14 12:40:01
ID: 46677
My sister and I try to be close, but she makes me crazy. I legit think she has ODD. If I like something she has to say the opposite or argue why it's wrong. I know she wants to hang out more, but I literally can't.
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-04-14 03:45:55
ID: 46671
I'm also not close with my siblings. 2/3 of them live within 15 minutes of me but are completely self absorbed assholes, and they're raising their kids to be the same too. I would like to be closer to my baby brother but he's a few states away. I probably talk to him and his girlfriend more than anyone. But I barely know him since I moved out when he was 12.
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