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Posted by: anonymous
2017-03-12 20:18:47
ID: 45681
In response to a confession. Op here. I guess his bro didn't know if I was still married. I'm very private on fb, more of a lurker and commenter. I never post pics and dont really go on there much anyway. This is just messing with my head. I know he meant it as a meaningless comment, we did have about an hr long conversation about music and just catching up in general and he didn't mention the ex again. Noone knows I still think about him always. I need to grow up and move on with my life, I know. But I can't help it. He was my 1st love for years and knowing he still has feelings too makes it hard.
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-03-12 16:37:05
ID: 45672
I was madly in love with my hs BF for 7 years. Things ended, he moved across the country, I got married & had kids. I think of him alot still and he pops up in my dreams sometimes.not sure if I ever got over him. We have not spoken in 15 yrs. last nite his step-bro who's a fb friend, messaged me asking if I was on good terms with ex.I asked why. He said ex told him that I was the one that got away. I was floored. I didn't think ex even still thought of me too. Step bro didn't know if I was married or what my situation was. Now I'm thinking of ex even more.I'm not going to open any doors by friend requesting ex, who is on fb too. Just makes me question some of my life decisions. I've been married 14 yrs.
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-03-11 19:26:17
ID: 45653
Dh's knee surgery went well and I'm staying on top of his pain management. My in laws came yesterday afternoon and it is seriously stressful. Dh now can see how this was a bad idea, but it's too late now.
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-03-11 19:23:48
ID: 45652
I think I need to have a nice little cry, a nap, then some hot tea. The crying will let me let go of some of the anger/frustration I have welling up, a nap will revive me physically and hot tea will be refreshing. Then I can get down to my business.
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-03-10 23:56:24
ID: 45634
In response to a confession. I feel just fine about myself. Maybe I worded that in a confusing way. Being told I'm sexy and desirable is foreplay, it turns me on. It makes me feel erotic and sexual to be sexually desired and to be told that in words not just actions. Do I have to kiss myself and lick my own clitoris too?
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-03-10 23:35:31
ID: 45630
In response to a confession. I think it has to do with a person's love language. Some people need words of affirmation. Nothing wrong with that. If your spouse knows you need something to feel loved, and refuses to do it, that's pretty dick-ish. I don't necessarily understand my husband's need to be told that I love him and think he's great, but he needs it, so I do it. Acts of service make me feel loved, so when he mows the lawn or does the dishes, he gets lucky, lol.
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-03-10 22:52:46
ID: 45638
In response to a confession. I also went through something similar with my DH. For me, it was him never being affectionate to me unless he was after sex. We did some stuff with tantric techniques and worked more on foreplay and that sort of thing. It really helped rekindle the spark. Turns out, we were just sort of going through the motions and we were just plain getting bored.
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-03-10 22:13:11
ID: 45635
In response to a confession. Smh at this bullshit.
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-03-10 19:27:57
ID: 45626
In response to a confession. If you already know you are sexy and desirable, its not your husbands job to make you feel ok about yourself. That comes from within.
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-03-10 18:22:52
ID: 45624
In order to feel sexy and erotic, I need positive attention and feedback. I need to be told I'm sexy and desirable. I've told dh that many times. He will say you know I think you're sexy, that's why I want you all the time. Not the same thing. Men. Sigh.
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