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Posted by: anonymous
2017-02-07 17:44:41
ID: 44737
Dh is on the road the majority of time for work. This benefits me because I need a lot of quiet/alone time. He's currently in the middle of a 2-month local project, and home at 3 every day. Ugh. Yesterday he decided to work from home to catch up on paperwork. When he was done he said we should take advantage of the warm weather to clean up the trees that snapped from the recent high winds. After 5 hours of work we could barely move. Today I got ds off to school and crawled back into bed for a bit, where dh proceeds to tell me that he's taking a sick day - FML! -and tries to start a conversation. I told him I needed more sleep and a bit of quiet today. I finally got up at 9 and before I even had two sips of coffee, he starts talking about something on FB. EIGHTEEN STRAIGHT MINUTES. And he keeps trying to show me videos from YouTube. I'm telling him I need to go to the office to do paperwork but I'm really going to the library for some fucking quiet.
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-02-06 23:05:58
ID: 44726
My DH loves having his ego stroked. The problem is, I suck at that. I just suck at openly complimenting him all the time and telling him how great he is all the time. I have to wonder if it's because he never compliments me or says really nice things to me.
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-02-06 21:44:56
ID: 44723
BF came home in a hissy mood. He wasn't taking it out on me. He doesn't talk much about issues, he usually just gets in a bad mood and won't say why. Today he told me why, and I listened. His boss is the owners right hand man. The boss hired his grandson a while back. Grandson does like 1/10th the work my BF does. And if you try to tell this 19yr old he messed something up, he has anger problems and leaves the job site for 30mins-hour. BF tells the boss, boss doesn't care cuz he won't fire the grandson. If anyone else worked like this, they'd be fired. Boss fired his own brother once for not keeping up. Owner would flip his lid and probably fire the boss if he knew he was letting grandson get paid to do nothing. BF won't say anything to owner, coworkers would probably shun him cuz they're all bosses friends.
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-02-06 19:18:35
ID: 44718
In response to a confession. I know a couple that actually did reunite after about 20 yrs apart. They were high school sweethearts that lost touch and found each other again on fb. Both were single again and they started talking and now they're a couple again.
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-02-06 15:01:01
ID: 44714
The affair I am having is so fucked up and dysfunctional - I should actually be able to end it and focus on my DH - wowzer this guy is cray-cray and does so many things I dislike - what was I thinking??? Good god!
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-02-05 22:07:24
ID: 44708
My DH got so pissed off on Friday and said all sorts of horrific things to me. I guess he said he was frustrated for a long time and let it all build up. Now he's being all nice and apologetic. I wish he would just tell me when he's upset and not hold it in for so long.
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-02-05 13:54:50
ID: 44698
DH was so pissy yesterday. It turned into a deep tearful conversation between us, followed by great sex last night and this morning. We need to do that more often. Like letting ourselves be vulnerable took sex to such a deeper connection.
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-02-04 13:00:36
ID: 44689
In response to a confession. Depends on where you live too. I am in a community property state. I am automatically entitled to half of everything, even if my name isn't on it. I have copies of all the account statements. So if my DH did decide he was tired of marriage, he would still be obligated to pay me half of everything in the accounts. If I tried to take money out of them, I would have proof, and the court would not only give me half, but most likely penalize him for taking money that was legally mine. I know people who have had this happen, and their husband's were the ones who got screwed.
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-02-04 02:53:55
ID: 44682
Having your name on everything doesn't mean you can't get screwed in a divorce. Just don't get too comfortable thinking you're all set if hubby gets tired of marriage.
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-02-01 23:58:43
ID: 44633
I was with an elderly relative today when we ran into an old friend of mine. I introduced them, and my relative asked if he goes by Rich or Dick. He said it doesn't matter, and she said 'you look like a Dick.' We laughed so hard, and she couldn't understand what was so funny.
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