My dh and I have had a rough two years because of his mother. We moved to be close to her because of her imaginary heath issues. I sacrificed my career, my schooling, a good chunk of my retirement fund, and my health. I'm not complaining, though, because I found something that I love to do and am slowly building a new career. My dh has been so bitter and jealous toward me because he has a 9-5 career. I'm not sacrificing what I love. Misery loves company and I'm not getting a shitty job just so he can feel like he can have someone to commiserate with. I've supported him through thick and thin, and it's time he returned the favor. I never made him feel guilty and shitty for not making a lot of money. It's really opened my eyes and I feel like he was only with me for money. Sorry, just had to vent.