Posted by: anonymous
2017-11-07 19:17:00
ID: 51638
I'm so pissed at DH. We've been talking about putting a small patio in and he even marked the spot in the backyard. We discussed cost of patio blocks vs. concrete and he was to call a contractor about it. This morning I asked if he'd made the call and he went off on a tangent about finishing a small painting project first and how can I expect him to do two jobs at once (you know, like a woman does EVERY day!). Evidently he refuses to even think about a project until the current one is finished. I'm done dealing with the whole thing.
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-11-06 18:04:15
ID: 51630
I stumbled across a video on you tube called 'a minute of silence' where ex lovers see each other for the first time in many years, with no words spoken. I was bawling, thinking of my first love, the one that got away. Then I read that the man sued the woman for some of the money. Wtf? People suck.
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-11-06 02:59:22
ID: 51624
I'm not in a relationship at the moment, but I'm ready to start dating again. I've been perusing an online dating site and saw one of the clients that frequent my office. Next time he's in I plan on striking up a conversation with him to see if I get a vibe that he's interested. If nothing comes of it, I'm giving myself until Jan 1st to meet someone, then I'm going to unhide my profile and go that route again. Ugh, the thought of it makes me nauseous. It shouldn't have to be this hard.
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-11-06 00:37:46
ID: 51622
I always get up before DH so I can get ready for class, but lately, he's been sleeping through his alarm. I noticed he wasn't getting up once and went to wake him up but he said I should've woken him up when he was "supposed to" get up. Hell no. I'm not going to be his manual alarm clock. He can learn to get out of his damn bed on his own. I don't want to get him used to me waking him up. I am not going down that road.
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-11-05 22:08:10
ID: 51618
I don't have the energy to care about sex anymore. Work has become a nightmare, and there's no change in sight.. at least, not for the immediate future. I am always in pain, exhausted, and stressed out. I'm afraid that DH will get sick of waiting for sex (we can go a few weeks without it, have it once, then go another couple of weeks, etc.). Yet sometimes I will be ready/willing and he won't come to bed or he'll go hang out at the neighbors. I'm 49 years old, and I LIKE sex. I just want myself back to normal.
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-11-05 20:24:52
ID: 51599
Trying to fill a void with guys again. I had sex with someone the other day. I'm married. Dh was a huge ahole tonight. Left me sitting in a brewery alone. I go outside and he's on the phone with his best friend. Big argument happens. I told him not to dare ask where I'm going and who I'm with when I go out. And that he does not know how to treat a woman. He dropped me off at home and left. I told him we're roommates and have been for a long time. I honestly don't care if we get divorced.
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-11-05 20:15:09
ID: 51580
I met up with a fwb yesterday. He was shorter than I like, but knows how to please. He's 56 and got off twice. Dh can't even get it up. I'll see him again if he wants too. I told dh last week let's just divorce, but still live together for financial reasons. He got mad and said, "Go f#ck who you want then!" I've tried for years with dh. I won't anymore. I'm 46.
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-11-05 14:12:14
ID: 51612
i would totally file for divorce right now if not for the fact that i'd probably end up having to pay spousal support. I make about 2.5x more than my husband does at the moment. He's on track to make a lot more money within the next 2-3 years. I'll wait until then. It's not all bad but i'm so sick of being in a relationship and all the compromise and crap that comes along with it. I long to be single again and free to do and go whatever and wherever I want without having to consider another person's wants/needs. does this make me selfish? probably. too bad i realized this about myself after getting married.
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-11-04 20:57:41
ID: 51607
In response to a confession. Before I went back to school full time, I only worked part-time and stayed home and took care of EVERYTHING the rest of the time. DH literally just had to go to work, come home and watch TV/have fun. Meanwhile, I did all the cooking, cleaning, laundry, yard work, and errand-running. He still said shitty things to me about how I didn't pull my weight enough around the house. When I had to leave for over a week for a conference and he had to do everything himself, he realized just how much stuff I take care of by myself. He started pitching in more and he definitely doesn't think I just sit on my butt when I'm not in school now.
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Posted by: anonymous
2017-11-04 13:03:54
ID: 51603
In response to a confession. We've done counseling as well. And I definitely get my DH has a stressful career-he travels 4 days a week. But then I am here on my own doing everything 24/7 with zero help. So that is what truly killed me-like damn dude. I try to keep life super easy so he can unwind here after a stressful week and it's still not enough.
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