Posted by: anonymous
2018-10-12 23:49:04
ID: 57206
In response to a confession. First of all, I'm not divorcing him. Second of all, find him another woman? What the actual fuck, lady??!! I had a talk with him; told him that his kids (I've been their SM for 35 years) would have to take care of him because he lied about quitting, and that I'd live life like I thought WE would live it without him because he's a liar. He's very apologetic, but I'm no fool.
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Posted by: anonymous
2018-10-12 21:41:49
ID: 57201
In response to a confession. Wtf? Why would she end up taking care of him if they divorced? He's on his own then. And getting him another woman to take care of him? Hello, 1954 called...
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Posted by: Stormyweather
2018-10-12 20:56:35
ID: 57200
In response to a confession. Why? If they divorce it's not her problem. Even if they have kids, not her problem. No woman has to be a caregiver if she doesn't want to. We wonder why we get treated like unpaid help. So many will do it, or expect it of others, like his next wife, as if it's her job. It's his job to get himself taken care of.
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Posted by: anonymous
2018-10-12 18:26:13
ID: 57198
Thing is, you'll probably wind up taking care of him even if you ARE divorced. If you do divorce him, find that man another wife pronto or the burden will still be on you. I'm not saying this because I think it's right, or fair. I'm saying it because it's what happens.
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Posted by: anonymous
2018-10-12 12:04:10
ID: 57192
In response to a confession. I'm not sure I can tell him I won't take care of him. But I can picture myself divorcing him. Odd, isn't it?
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Posted by: anonymous
2018-10-12 11:35:32
ID: 57191
In response to a confession. I got my DH to quit smoking by telling him if he gets lung cancer I will NOT be his caregiver. He will be on his own getting to chemo treatments etc. He will also fend for himself when he gets home (on his own) after his chemo treatments. I will do things and go places on my own or with my family and friends if he is too sick from his smoking induced lung cancer and chemo. And I also told him if he smokes in our house I will just divorce him. He quit completely within a month after smoking for years.
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Posted by: anonymous
2018-10-12 00:58:18
ID: 57187
In response to a confession. And that's just another reason I'm so mad at him! We were supposed to get healthy and grow old together. Now I'll probably have to take care of him in a few years. Just like my SD, who lied about paying us back a loan, I lost all respect for him. Last night I told him that I've never been so disappointed in anyone in my life, and have refused to talk to him about it today. I'm heartbroken on so many levels.
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Posted by: Stormyweather
2018-10-11 17:32:55
ID: 57181
In response to a confession. No, you're the smart one. He's the one that will have lung cancer to go with his fishing pole.
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Posted by: anonymous
2018-10-11 04:54:26
ID: 57158
We went bankrupt a few years ago because dh went to rehab for his alcoholism. He was gone for 60 days, we used most of our savings for rehab because it wasn't covered under our insurance. He relapsed 2 weeks after rehab, was depressed and didn't work for another 9 months. It's been hell which is why we're divorcing. I can't take it anymore.
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Posted by: anonymous
2018-10-11 04:53:36
ID: 57177
Ex dh sucks, 18 year old ds just got kicked out of the house, and my boyfriend sucks. I really hate men right now.
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