How many times am I gonna have to tell my H that I want a divorce? I broke the news to him 3 weeks ago but for the past 2 weeks he's been acting like nothing ever happened. Business as usual. He even wants to plan something for my bday next month. No. I want to get the ball rolling on this divorce process so we can move on with our lives. And yes, I know I could file on my own, but I want to have a discussion beforehand & come to a mutual agreement on division of our assets (we have no kids). I can't do this if he continues to be in deep denial. I don't want a messy, contested, expensive divorce.