And then sometimes things happen to throw a wrench into all of that planning. For me, that was COVID. I'm being furloughed from the good job that I just got, the one that would get me back on my feet financially since DH spends all our money and shot our credit. It would take a drive of several days, with a dog and a kid, to get back to my family. All of my friends here have moved to other states. Unless I win the lottery, I'm stuck for I don't know how much longer.