I don't have the energy to care about sex anymore. Work has become a nightmare, and there's no change in sight.. at least, not for the immediate future. I am always in pain, exhausted, and stressed out. I'm afraid that DH will get sick of waiting for sex (we can go a few weeks without it, have it once, then go another couple of weeks, etc.). Yet sometimes I will be ready/willing and he won't come to bed or he'll go hang out at the neighbors. I'm 49 years old, and I LIKE sex. I just want myself back to normal.