Posted by: anonymous

2018-04-06 23:25:14

ID: 54219

I don't want to date ANYONE with young kids because I don't want to help take care of kids. I don't hate kids, but I hate everything related to childcare. I don't want to be a 'step' anything, I don't want to do 'family friendly' vacations or activities. I don't want my freedom swallowed up by kids' homework, needing to take them places, sitting at their sports events, birthdays, what have you. So I don't date anyone whose kids are not fully grown. You have to be honest with yourself, if you truly dislike anything that smacks of parenting then don't get serious about anyone who's still in the process of raising children. They HAVE to be all about their kids because that's life, kids are time & money suckers. There's no way around it.

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Posted by: anonymous

2018-04-06 23:24:08

ID: 54247

Dh bought a recliner that we do not need. Small living room. I made it work. He flipped out because he liked it in the middle of the room (smack dab center of the room). In the way. He's been arguing with me over anything and everything for a week. I'm so fed up with it. I hate coming home after work because I have no idea what new argument will greet me. Every single day it's something. He also decided to take 2 days off over my days off. Yay! I thought I would have a little breathing room but no. So in a snow storm I will be the idiot running errands just to get away for a few hours. I just want some peace and quiet. Why the hell is he fighting just to fight? I'm so sick of it. I go to work, cook, clean. I don't drink, party or go out wtf if his problem. Work and home and I'm starting to hate being home.

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Posted by: anonymous

2018-04-06 23:23:32

ID: 54275

Sometimes, when I read stuff on here, the first image that pops into my brain is that SpongeBob meme. You know the one. wHy DoNt you LeAVe? Or, my personal favorite, WeLL wHy DId yOu mARrY HiM ThEn?!

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Posted by: anonymous

2018-04-06 02:07:45

ID: 54294

Is it wrong to wish that asshat DH and ILs die in a car crash? They’re currently in a car together.

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Posted by: anonymous

2018-04-06 01:12:13

ID: 54293

I will END him!

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Posted by: anonymous

2018-04-06 00:34:30

ID: 54291

DH and I quit smoking last May. My reason for quitting was that he was diagnosed with COPD and I've heard the 'rattle' in his breathing for years. I had no health issues. Found in October that he hadn't really quit but was hiding it from me. He came home a week ago with Nicorette and said he was done smoking. I was so proud of him! Today I pulled into the car wash and there he was, talking to some guy and smoking! I left, and texted him that I can't believe I'm married to a liar. We haven't spoken since. Lying to me is the best way to get cut out of my life, and right now I'm livid.

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Posted by: anonymous

2018-04-05 19:05:08

ID: 54289

I think most people do, to a point anyway. They probably figure the spouse approves/condones the actions of their spouse since they(usually) put up or go along with whatever their spouse is doing. Of course, if your dh beats the kids, or steals, cheats, etc., even though you don't, then I will judge the hell out of you because you're an idiot for staying with him/her.

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Posted by: anonymous

2018-04-05 18:56:11

ID: 54287

Does anyone else do this? Judge people based on their spouses actions? I know I do it and I shouldn't! I have a friend who has a DH who loves to spend money they don't have. So I sort of wind up judging her a bit based on that even though she hates that he does it too. I often wonder if people judge me based on my DH. I know they do but I wish we as a society wouldn't because you never know the whole story.

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Posted by: anonymous

2018-04-04 20:14:32

ID: 54274

Message to MIL and FIL: a big fat FUCK YOU and FUCK OFF. Ever notice that no one ever asks why you haven’t visited? Or asked you to stay longer when you foist your asses on us? Because you’re not wanted! FUCK OFF!

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Posted by: anonymous

2018-04-04 10:50:27

ID: 54272

It’s been almost 20 years. We were just teenagers and we live on opposite sides of the world now. I know you think that since I’m married now, and we don’t talk, I’ve forgotten you. But I always think about you, BT. Especially in April. It will be 20 years on the 9th. I want to tell you I hope you’re happy even though I know we can never be together again. I’ll always think of you and remember you with a smile on my face and happiness in my heart.

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