I'm a sahm too, so I feel your pain. I read an article about how DH's go to work and miss out on time with the kiddos so that we can be sahm. My DH can say some really hurtful insensitive crap when were having a disagreement. Marriage counseling did wonders for us. He realizes that cooking, cleaning, shopping, and shuttling the kids around is hard work. It made me realize how much pressure he's under to go to work and maintain our financial stability. Just some food for thought.