My exdh and I did so many fun things before we got married - played hooky from work to go to the beach, had picnics by the lake, took random day trips, met for a quick lunch together during the work day, etc. Once we got married, though, it ALL ended. While he worked 6 days a week, it was only 30 hours, so he had plenty of time (he was self-employed and made a lot of money, so that wasn't the issue). He would say that if I ever wanted to do anything, it had to be on Sunday - but then he'd say "Sunday is my only day to rest" so we didn't do anything.Sometimes I'd be away on business in a cool city 90 mins away, and he wouldn't even drive down to join me. For YEARS I begged him to do things. Finally I filed for divorce. I stayed in the house for a week before moving out. He waited until I was walking out for the last time to say, "You don't have to leave, you know." I said, "You're right, but you've had a week to say that. Too late."