My DH is actually a great person. He’s kind, supportive, and puts us first for everything. (As he should though). It’s just me that doesn’t like how he operates. Takes him forever to call his mom and get questions answered that i need, yes I suppose I can call her, but he also needs to be involved and i don’t want to look like some neurotic controlling wife. I’m already neurotic and semi controlling (stems from being a single mom though!) as it is. But yeah, I would miss him, but not his modus operandi.