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Posted by: anonymous
2020-01-27 22:14:48
ID: 63035
In response to a confession. My ex-husband didn't seem to get that I was unhappy. So one day when he snapped at me for no reason, I told him we needed to talk. I told him what I needed and was missing in the marriage. He wouldn't agree to counseling or a separation, but said he'd try harder. He didn't, in fact, he outright told me that my needs (spending time together, him showing/letting me know that he thought of me, helping me when I needed it) were bullshit and he wasn't going to do anything about it. Three months later he snapped at me again. and I just said, "I don't want to be married anymore. I want a divorce." He started crying! I thought we could do it amicably, but I was wrong. I left on a work trip the next day, and by the time I got to my destination he had shut everything off and closed our joint accounts.
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Posted by: anonymous
2020-01-27 21:39:09
ID: 63034
In response to a confession. Just sit down with him and tell him the truth directly. It might suck at the time but soon he'll be out of your life for good. If you have no kids then you'll never have to deal with him again. Just rip that band-aid off! Then you both can move on with your lives.
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Posted by: anonymous
2020-01-27 13:10:50
ID: 63030
i have a question for anyone who's divorced and were the ones to initiated it. how, exactly, did you first tell your husband/spouse you wanted a divorce? if you could go back in time, would you do it the same way or do you wish you had gone about it differently? I want a divorce but I want to tell him and go about it as amicably, maturely, and respectfully as possible. I know that how I tell him can play a part in setting the tone in how things go forward. we have no kids if that matters.
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Posted by: anonymous
2020-01-26 01:28:50
ID: 63015
DH said to me: "Why don't you ever help me with anything around here?" to which I replied: "Because. I don't need to help you. I fucking do everything you DON'T do on my own without you helping me. Your only chores are to clean up snow, take out the trash,get the mail, and take care of the lawn. You don't need my help with anything and you better be damn glad you don't have to think about your laundry, your meals, or dishes getting done. You're welcome!". That shut him up pretty quickly.
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Posted by: anonymous
2020-01-26 00:22:56
ID: 63010
In response to a confession. I was just coming here to complain about my DH and i think this sums it up! My DH takes no sort of leadership and he does not do well with confrontation. Like, I need you to step up and be the head of this fucking house, at least 50%!! I can’t fucking do everything. I mean I can, but why should I? You’re in this shit too! I’m coming to my breaking point and it won’t be pretty when I do.
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Posted by: anonymous
2020-01-20 15:42:01
ID: 62978
There's an ad on a local Facebook page from a man looking for help with his kids - cooking, cleaning, etc. Must be energetic, dependable, etc. I totally get needing help with your kids. But the gig is every other weekend, per his custody agreement. Seriously, Dude only has his kids 4 days a month, and he can't even handle that. Can't imagine why your divorced.
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Posted by: anonymous
2020-01-20 03:12:43
ID: 62974
My husband is nothing more than a walking paycheck to me anymore. Other than that, he's completely useless.
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Posted by: anonymous
2020-01-20 03:11:58
ID: 62973
DH and I often talk about what we would do if we won the lottery. Things like get a beach house. Truth is, the first thing I would do is get a divorce.
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Posted by: anonymous
2020-01-20 00:08:58
ID: 62970
I have a hard time making friends. I always have. I just don't really like people much, I guess? Including myself. I don't know what's wrong with me but I think I'll always be a loner.
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Posted by: anonymous
2020-01-19 00:49:54
ID: 62960
I really dislike how so many men seem to have all the answers even when they are wrong about everything. My DH is one of them. He thinks we should not redo our house because of the cost but it's so horribly old right now that it'll do nothing but help us out with the home value. I hate how short sighted he is on EVERYTHING.
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