Posted by: anonymous

2022-01-24 13:48:42

ID: 68075

He's definitely got a listening device somewhere in the house. If it were me, I would find a way to find it. I would. I would google the hell out of it, and find a way. Or hire someone to come in and sweep the place. I couldn't live like that. I mean, WHY? I would find it. I would probably also simulate an affair or something really bad that there's NO way he could know about(because you made it up)- and see how he treats you when he gets home. Or maybe make him think you won the lottery and didn't tell him.... SOMETHING. And then when he starts acting froggy about it, I'd just set the listening device on the counter in front of him. And walk out.

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Posted by: anonymous

2022-01-24 00:33:37

ID: 68073

Same here…what my ex did triggered me so much that I went ballistic when DH did the same. We’ve spent the last two days talking (once I went ballistic and had a come to Jesus meeting with myself), and though I wouldn’t say things are better, I said what I needed to. May I suggest you replace that hammer with a shovel? :-)

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Posted by: anonymous

2022-01-21 16:02:08

ID: 68059

Thank you! Yes, there's nothing that pisses me off more than being made a fool of. Like, we're all sitting around, laughing, joking, having a good time, only to learn that they're all laughing, joking and having a good time with H and the side piece. Sitting in my house, eating my food and drinking my alcohol, and thinking what a clueless idiot I am. That's fine. I'll just play the part of "dumb wife" until it's time to bring the hammer down.

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Posted by: anonymous

2022-01-20 23:24:55

ID: 68057

I’m SO sorry! I don’t believe mine is cheating, but at this point if he said he isn’t I may not believe him. He has now decided to just ignore me, as he’s done 1000 times before, thinking I’ll ‘get over it.’ I’m on the verge of tears 24/7 (had a good cry in the drive thru car wash today though), and I’m just going about my day, one stinkin’ foot in front of the other. I hope things work out for you! It’s just so hard being made a fools of, isn’t it?

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Posted by: anonymous

2022-01-20 16:30:54

ID: 68054

I'm kind of freaking out. H has a niche job that requires him to be away for weeks and months at a time. For a couple years I've felt that he may have put a listening device or something in the house, because it seemed like he'd mention things I talked about when he wasn't here. But I thought maybe I was misremembering or being paranoid - until now. Last week, my 21yo and I were talking about a weird, disruptive classmate from back in 3rd grade. This kid has a VERY unique name. The other day, H texted, "Remember that kid (NAME) who was harassing (child) and the other kids?" Unless he's psychic, not sure how he pulled up that name/incident from 12 years ago out of the blue. AND THEN on the phone he said, "I hope you didn't tell your friends about [very specific thing I DID tell my friends over the phone]." So wtf is going on here???

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Posted by: anonymous

2022-01-20 04:24:15

ID: 68050

I feel you on this. H has said many times, "I'm not him/them," referring to my exes who lied and treated me like dirt. And here we are, with him constantly lying and at times treating me like dirt. Recently found out he's been having an affair, and his friends and coworkers - some who come to my house and sit across from me at MY dinner table - all know. But you know what? I'm not going to let this break me. I'm going to break HIM.

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Posted by: anonymous

2022-01-19 18:43:25

ID: 68049

My DH has nice hair. He's got very thick salt & pepper wavy hair and he's always just buzzed it off. It's never looked bad, but I've had visions of McDreamy hair on top of his head lol. So, I asked him to let it grow out. ... Guys. ... It's NOT McDreamy. It's McWeird. It's McPoofy. I don't know how to tell him. He did this for ME, after all. Maybe he just needs a better cut? I don't know but the way it is now is so poofy it's nuts.

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Posted by: anonymous

2022-01-19 16:35:22

ID: 68047

My XH went to a party on NYE and shared a joint with someone and got covid. He's not vaccinated. He is feeling better now but I am still pissed. I'm pissed as hell that he would take that risk with his life - he's got kids. MY kids. 50 years old and sharing joints at a party during a pandemic. What a fucking idiot. But I'm the crazy one for being worried about him. Grrr. He could die tomorrow and it would affect my day to day life at all. It would BREAK my children though. Idiot.

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Posted by: anonymous

2022-01-18 02:45:44

ID: 68040

I am broken. Absolutely broken. DH told me he quit smoking when I did six years ago but didn’t. He snuck around and I found out three months later. I was livid. We had friends come to visit a week ago and he told me he quit the day they got here. Every day I asked; every day he said ‘I’m on Day (2, 3,4,5,&6). Every day I patted him on the back and told him how proud I am. Yesterday I caught a whiff but no, he insisted that he hadn’t smoked. Today I caught him outside smoking. He said he never made any promises. Yeah, asshole, you DID! Also found out he swore our guy friend to secrecy. ExH fucked everything that moved and swore his buddies to secrecy, and they all treated me like a queen…all the while knowing what a bastard he was. DH once said ‘I’m not him,’ but he is 100% the same MF’ing liar. Broken. Done.

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Posted by: anonymous

2022-01-02 00:17:26

ID: 68001

ExDH must have had a wild NYE! Divorced 33 years, haven’t seen each other in 20, haven’t communicated in ten, yet he called me at 3 a.m. to leave me a voicemail about how great I was in bed.

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