My ex hides things from his gf because he doesn't want her to know he's a screw up. He caused an accident a while back, got a ticket for driving recklessly, didn't pay it (this is so him, he thinks it'd just go away), got his license suspended since he didn't pay it, now he's forcing it to be my problem. He's giving me less child support so he can pay for it. And in order to hide is paper trail from his gf, without my permission, he had paperwork from the dmv and a lawyer sent to my house. His gf looks at my fb, I'm thinking about making a public post with pictures, but I'm sure the Narcissist will explain it away to his gullible gf. I can't blame her, he did this same to me during our marriage, he never let me get the mail because he hid all the cards he racked up in his and my name and never paid them.