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Posted by: anonymous
2018-10-07 01:07:46
ID: 57115
My DH and I got in this stupid fight about getting a couch. He wanted us to just use his old college futon for a while. It's lumpy as hell and I like, NEED to have something comfy to sit on. He said we'd get a couch "sometime". But this means, in his language, that it will be after Christmas before he even thinks about it. I threatened to just go buy one after work one night and he finally just went and picked up the couch and loveseat I wanted. He said he didn't think it would bother me that much. Um, duh, yeah it does--we have no furniture to sit on--I need a couch, dude.
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Posted by: anonymous
2018-10-06 12:46:54
ID: 57100
In response to a confession. What’s his native language? Maybe you can learn some phrases and try that?
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Posted by: anonymous
2018-10-06 05:46:04
ID: 57081
Does it seem as if I am looking for something to complain about? (serious qu) Dating a man (non-native English speaker and intelligent person) that continuously repeats "wow you are so thin" and "you are so pretty." His way of complimenting me. Its come to the point that I am so sick of hearing these same two phrases constantly. I know its wonderful he wants to say something, but man, could you be a little more specific once in awhile, instead of the rote stuff you think is what I want to hear? (he knows, for example, that I work hard to stay fit). Like, "your blue eyes are so arresting" or "I love to run my hands through your hair." Sigh. Can't really see how to tell him this. It's fine.
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Posted by: anonymous
2018-10-06 05:40:39
ID: 57098
I'm trying so hard to be cordial to dh while we live together and go through a divorce. It's hard because he's an alcoholic. One minute he's sorry, the next minute I'm a bitch and whore. When I filed for divorce I was serious. I'm done. I've been done. I have tried and tried for years. Currently Mr. Bipolar is giving me the silent treatment. He won't even talk to me about our son. Grow up! You did this dh! Ahole!
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Posted by: anonymous
2018-10-05 13:35:14
ID: 57086
In response to a confession. Question asked and answered. I get it, OP. Best of luck to you!
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Posted by: anonymous
2018-10-05 03:23:12
ID: 57078
Holy shit! I just signed up for Tinder and lasted about a half hour. The men on the are SO pushy, I had no idea. Not for me.
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Posted by: anonymous
2018-10-05 00:22:09
ID: 57070
I was married for 27 years and have spent a lot of that time being lonely. Dh and I haven't slept in the same room since I was 3 months pregnant with our 18 year old son. We haven't made love in about 9 or so years. That is why I'm ready to date. I'm ready to find companionship, someone to go places with, etc....
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Posted by: anonymous
2018-10-03 18:28:07
ID: 57068
In response to a confession. Congrats on getting out, but I don't understand how/why you can be dating so soon after splitting up. It's personal choice; I get it. But if I'd been with someone for that long I'd want at least a little time to be on my own.
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Posted by: anonymous
2018-10-02 17:15:00
ID: 57049
Ha! Now the alcoholic dh/soon to be ex of 27 years wants to go to counseling. What a joke. He said I must be cheating since I don't want to go. No asshole. If that was the case, then he's been cheating for years because I've been asking him to go to counseling for years. Alcoholics are so manipulative! I just woke up last year after going to Al-anon! And seeing his nasty messages he was sending his friends girlfriend. AND I brought up all the other inappropriate crap he's done over the years that I never said anything about. Texing with women, flirting, etc.... I told him when I asked for a divorce, we were DONE! And I am dating someone now. Dh and his dad have this playboy mentality. You'd laugh if you saw them both!
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Posted by: anonymous
2018-10-02 17:14:45
ID: 57053
In response to a confession. Is this the guy who's made it evident that he wants to move on? Sorry you're hurting. I know how bad it sucks. You gotta leave him alone, though. Respect the boundaries he's tried to set with you. There could be an amazing person out there for you and you might miss out on them because you're putting all of your energy into the past.
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