I've been dating this man since March. He's so sweet, sober and loving, something I'm not used too after being with an alcoholic for years. I catch him staring at me and it shocks me. The things he says and does are beautiful. How present he is. I love him. He's not even my "type." He's nerdy, and gentle. My dh is a cussing, drinking, pot smoking, cigarette smoking, loud bully who is obsessed with nothing but sports. This new man has an innocence about him too, especially in the sex department. Things he's never done in the bedroom, car, with toys and outdoors. Hahaha. I love him and hope we have a long future together.