DH got me absolutely nothing for Christmas, even though he had $400 in cash for Christmas shopping. He didn't buy anything for anyone, just spent it all on himself (gas in his truck, lunch, coffees, 1/2 oz of weed (which is LEGAL here), etc.) For Christmas 2018, he was an actively using drug addict and STILL got me $75.00 in gift cards. WTF, dude. I guess I matter considerably less than his fancy coffee and weed ..