contd- 1. Playing this song when he's mad at me is passive-aggressive, 2. The woman in the song "told him all the big things she had planned." Apparently talking about big things is okay, but when the big things actually happen, that's bad? F*** this. I wish he would just ask me for a divorce instead of playing this song over and over. We have a son. I'm trying to make this marriage work, but all he does is feel sorry for himself. I'm losing respect for him.