Posted by: anonymous
2019-02-03 18:20:16
ID: 58876
contd- 1. Playing this song when he's mad at me is passive-aggressive, 2. The woman in the song "told him all the big things she had planned." Apparently talking about big things is okay, but when the big things actually happen, that's bad? F*** this. I wish he would just ask me for a divorce instead of playing this song over and over. We have a son. I'm trying to make this marriage work, but all he does is feel sorry for himself. I'm losing respect for him.
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Posted by: anonymous
2019-02-03 18:16:49
ID: 58875
My husband is in the other room listening to this song- "We used to go out walkin' hand in hand You told me all the big things you had planned It wasn't long till all your dreams came true Success put me in second place with you You have no time to love me anymore Since fame & fortune knocked upon our door I spend all my evenings all alone Success has made a failure of our home If we could spend an evening now & then Perhaps we'd find true happiness again You never hold me like you used to do It's funny what success has done for you You have no time to love me anymore Since fame & fortune knocked upon our door I spend all my evenings all alone Success has made a failure of our home"
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Posted by: anonymous
2019-02-03 02:47:27
ID: 58870
My husband rarely has to travel. Only one trip a year. He left this morning for 4 days, and I already miss him. We don't have an exciting life. We are a typical couple with 2 kids. But I love him. And I miss him not sitting on the couch, watching TV with me. I missed him at dinner. We aren't the perfect couple. We have issues - everybody does. But he's a good guy and a great father and my best friend. Not all men are assholes.
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Posted by: Spectra
2019-02-03 01:44:45
ID: 58866
I didn't leave my DH. When I got my new job, we moved back to his hometown. He started helping a lot more around the house. He wasn't nearly as depressed as he was before and we worked through a lot of built up resentment we had for each other. He resented me for working only part time for a long time when I could have been working full time and making more money so he didn't feel pressured at his job. I resented him for never helping at home. Now we are much more equal partners--we both have jobs that pay a lot and we both do chores at home at about the same rate. Sometimes you just need to communicate what's bothering you so much about the other person to figure out how to fix it.
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Posted by: anonymous
2019-02-02 00:57:41
ID: 58861
In response to a confession. I'm also facing the possibility of a third divorce (though the second should have been annulled for fraud, but we couldn't find him), and I've realized that I'm okay with being alone. I'm much more keen on the idea of a FWB or two or three, than having to deal with someone's bullshit all over again. I've given my all to three men, just to be hurt and taken advantage of. Time for me to be selfish for once in my life.
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Posted by: anonymous
2019-02-02 00:01:05
ID: 58859
I'm pretty upset with my best friend. I thought I had her support in something I'm going through. But all I have is her judgement. Hopefully soon I will garner the strength to talk with her about it, but right now, I'm still too upset.
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Posted by: anonymous
2019-02-01 17:51:54
ID: 58856
I'm on my 3rd divorce and fear that I might end up alone.
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Posted by: anonymous
2019-01-31 06:18:47
ID: 58817
Stormyweather, he's not keeping me in any holding pattern. I blocked his phone number and blocked him on FB. I would never take him back. He really hurt me. We had plans to move in together and everything. :( Thank you for you concern. His loss. I'm a great lady!
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Posted by: anonymous
2019-01-31 06:03:53
ID: 58781
Called my mom, went to her house last night bawling my eyes out about the guy. She asked if we were intimate and I finally told her yes and that we'd been together for 10 months. Spilled a lot to her. I haven't talked to him since Tuesday. Some people in my life keep acting like I should be over him. This is the 1st heartbreak I've ever been through. I had heartbreak with ex-dh, but it was in bits and pieces, not out of the blue bam like this. It's embarrassing at work because I wear my sunglasses all day to hide my puffy eyes and tears. It will get better right?
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Posted by: anonymous
2019-01-29 04:51:01
ID: 58793
I'm married to an alcoholic. I have been for over 25 years. I had an affair with a man. We loved each other. Spent a lot of time together. He was married too. Both our spouses knew about us, and they were going out with others too. We stayed in our marriages for financial reasons. Planned on filing our divorces this summer. He dumped me. I don't know why? Things were good. We had plans. I know I deserve this. I hate myself. I want to kill myself but won't because of my son. Help me please. I know it didn't have a good chance of working, but I had hope. I'm so devastated. Please no bashing.
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