Posted by: anonymous

2018-11-27 15:57:37

ID: 57861

I'm not either person involved in the cheating wars here, but I wanted to comment in general. I do agree that it's majorly fucked up when someone cheats and continues to do so, so I understand wanting to lash out in anger against a person doing that. But I also understand the person that wants to come here to an anonymous website to openly confess. It completely sucks that they get scolded and ripped on for confessing. I never have cheated and I'm pretty sure I never will, but I'm not a saint either. I have made plenty of choices that I'm ashamed of and regret and wish I could erase from my memory. And a few of those things I've confessed here and at the old Truu. Somehow it feels comforting or healing to do so, and I don't need to be punched in the gut for my past because I'm hard enough on myself.

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Posted by: anonymous

2018-11-27 15:33:43

ID: 57859

What am I missing here? All these confessions and responses about someone cheating.. Where is the original confession?

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Posted by: anonymous

2018-11-27 14:40:18

ID: 57856

My ex DH cheated on me. In therapy, he made himself out to be the victim. Luckily, the therapist saw through his shit, especially when I told her that he'd given me an incurable sti. He's still with the woman he cheated with, herpes and all, so more power to them, I guess. I'm sure to him, it was all worth it. So, you'll have to excuse me if I have zero sympathy for someone who is putting their spouse at risk over some star crossed lovers bullshit. Your behavior is narcissistic, selfish, and disgusting. Period. Full stop. Sorry if hearing the truth hurts your precious little feelings.

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Posted by: anonymous

2018-11-27 02:31:15

ID: 57851

I am in this situation by choice yes that’s true. It doesn’t feel good, also true, therein lies my problem but I won’t delve deeper about it because clearly you all don’t care. Also, I didn’t come here to romanticize it, it’s what I’m going through is all and I wanted to post about it. If people feel the need to lecture me and judge me about it, there isn’t anything I can do about that and I knew the risk of being judged by posting it, but that’s how it goes here. I was mocking being called a skank and whore because name calling is just plain dumb despite what I am doing. But I’m not here to defend myself about my proclivity, or fight with anyone, I was simply chit chat confessing. I’ll just post about my trying to lose weight. But I bet I’ll be judged about that too!

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Posted by: Stormyweather

2018-11-26 16:44:58

ID: 57846

You cannot possibly be happy and feel good about yourself in this situation. Why continue if you know it's not good for anyone? Love and romance/sex/attraction is not a disease that you can't shake. It's a choice you are making.

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Posted by: anonymous

2018-11-26 14:17:55

ID: 57828

You might not deny it, but you sure as hell are trying to romanize it. That whole post was just pathetic. It was like reading a 14 year old's diary entry. Just because you have some romantic narrative running through your head doesn't negate the reality of your situation, which is that you're choosing to be a shitty person by cheating on your husband. Find yourself a good therapist and work on that shit.

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Posted by: anonymous

2018-11-26 04:35:26

ID: 57844

This is a confession site.....or it’s supposed to be. Oh, that’s right. It’s a morality pissing contest. Jesus, maybe you’d enjoy “one million moms” or something.

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Posted by: anonymous

2018-11-26 04:25:20

ID: 57843

Is this in reference to a post here? I feel like I’m missing something.

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Posted by: anonymous

2018-11-26 03:45:27

ID: 57842

Oh yEs I’m A sKank AnD a wHoRe, I’m super comfortable applying these terms to myself. Feel better????? You’ve accomplished to call someone names, the world is so much better now because you’ve called out a “skank” and a “whore”. Here’s a fucking cookie for your win. Stupid.

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Posted by: anonymous

2018-11-26 02:48:36

ID: 57841

Well then, I guess the terms "skank" and "whore" are terms you are comfortable applying to yourself. Because if you are cheating on your spouse, that's exactly what you are.

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